well say...that u like this guy but he gets a g/f thats not u....or u like this guy but he's stuck between u and another girl...does this happen for a reason such as God has his special "place" for you to be??
2006-12-20 10:23:56 · 16 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everything happens for a reason if its meant for you to be with someone then it will work out that way eventually when GOD thinks your ready for it.
I have had men ask me why couldnt we have meet a long time ago. Well a long time ago I was at a different place in my life not the person I am now and they probally wouldnt have liked my personilty back then, as opposed today. So things happen for a reason and god put people in your life when they are suppose to be.
Perhaps this person is just suppose to be your friend and not your lover. Or maybe he is to date this other girl first so he can appreciate and love you better.
2006-12-20 10:29:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Everything happens period. Some of it can be controlled...others you simply have to standback, watch and accept.
Life is tough. Sometimes you get things that you really want. Most of the time you don't. And don't factor God in all of this. If you don't get what you want then don't think yourself being punished. If you get what you want don't think of it as a reward. For the most part, you get things if you work hard for it. Sometimes, you know you won't get what you want even if you work hard for it.
No reason. Just choices, acceptable options and decisions.
2006-12-20 18:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by GardenMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe everything happens for a reason even in the worst case senerios. This guy obviously has no idea what he wants, you don't need a guy like that. This case when he's stuck deciding is saying you're not meant to be together.
2006-12-20 18:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in God, and I happen to, then yes. I do not really believe in coincidence. I think that to know what is great, we have to see what is not. The way this guy is treating you and this other girl he's bouncing back and forth on isn't good. I think we all have to meet a few bad apples in our life, so that when we find someone great, we know how to be grateful for them. Good luck :)
2006-12-20 18:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by plcarnrike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shorty hello : according to what every thing happend
is nothing yet personnly ! see myself an real true Christan
which I've been for an long time now ok ? yourself needs more
guidences just by sharing God with others
Peace On Earth & Happy Holidays
2006-12-20 18:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes and no.
Yes, I believe fate plays a role in our lives, something that we cannot control. For example: You meet a total stranger, and it turns out that you are with them the rest of your life. Something that you or the other person could not control, but it affects the rest of your life.
No, because we have the power to change things in your life. You can decide how you do things in life that can change things for your future.
2006-12-20 18:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by aureliusrocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything in life happens for a reason....maybe the reason is that you aren't meant to be with this guy. Give yourself time sweetie, the right guy for you will come along!
2006-12-20 18:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly for me yes, everything happens for a reason. sometimes is bad or is good but it all have a reason. Maybe what are u saying its for a reason if he goes with you then you will know that he does like you but if he goes with the other one then he never like you and to me is like life giving me a lesson to not get in love with no one that you're not shore.
2006-12-20 18:28:43 · answer #8 · answered by Tury Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i firmly believe in that saying! sometimes i look at things that have happened in my life that i wished would have happened another way, but then i think that if it did, i wouldn't have found the guy that completes me in everyway. if you like a guy and he doesn't return the feelings, it might be God's way of letting you now that he wasn't for you.
2006-12-20 18:30:09 · answer #9 · answered by felita2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes things just work that way. some one could be there to stop this bc u weren't meant to be with him. dont try to interpret this. things happen for a reason, but not bc someone does what anothers adivice tells them too. poeple should just go along with it and whatever happens is what was meant to be.
2006-12-20 18:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by beatles luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋