I'm sorry you feel that way, but please understand that not all of us are like that, Just go out and enjoy yourself again!
2006-12-20 11:04:25
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answered by Anonymous
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You say you were delayed? Let him know what hapened. I dont think you should have shouted at him-he was wrong for ignoring your calls but he was probably ticked off too. Guys don't like to be humiliated esp amongst friends so I think you definately did wrong there. Just call him and let him know you sorry or better yet, visit him if you can-arrange that first and BE ON TIME. Let him know you undertsand you made a mistake and explain why you were late. Tell him how you really feel but DON'T shout. Most of all-YOU MUST CONTROL YOUR TEMPER!!!(Beauty n the Beast?-cldn't help it)
By the way-don't blame your behaviour on ALL black guys-no one is perfect and neither are you-there is nothing wrong with our race....You just need to calm down and talk to your man...
2006-12-28 07:02:52
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answered by Tiara 1
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How stupid do u think a guy would be to invite u to the same spot where he is going to meet a girl ?it could be they are old friends and bumped into each other , the other part about your race , people are people no matter race or creed they will work u over if you let em!
2006-12-20 11:15:50
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answered by nitenurse 5
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Yes you're very wrong for three reasons:
1.0 You totally downed your race and included all black men in the catagory you hold your boyfriend in - which is wrong.
2.0 You didnt trust him and spied on him
3.0 You caused a scene in public for no good reason.
YOU were the one that was late and therefore he was quite entitled to be annoyed. Granted he should have answered his phone - are you normally late? If so I can understand why he'd be annoyed. But yes I think you are wrong. xx
2006-12-20 22:27:43
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answered by Anonymous
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You shouldn't hate your race there are a lot of beautiful people in the world not just black but white too so keep your options open, as for him if he has hurt your feelings before in the past you need to forget about him and move on. Remember if you let them walk all over you they will keep doing it.
God Bless you.
It doesn't matter how ibad i've been treated but my race i still know that theres good black / mixed race man out there for me.
2006-12-26 03:52:01
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answered by Anonymous
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The sad reality is that if you quarrelled so much over something so trivial that he is not the ONE for you.
That is NOT because he is black. Remember that black people are stupi and intelligent, uncouth and well-mannered, lazy and hard-working, just like white people, asians, etc, etc.
Treat people as people and don't let irrelevances like colour get in the way.
Hope you find a nice guy soon....whatever his race.
2006-12-26 06:49:03
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answered by alan h 1
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So, for making an assumption and for apprently 'getting it wrong,' for making a fool of your self and for possibly him in the eyes of his friends (some people [male and female] can be touchy about that kind of occurence) ~ and then for making it all HIS FAULT, you are asking 'am I wrong?'
Not being Sherlock Holmes, I have no idea. He may be guilty of what you feared as well as being an upset / hurt guy when he refused to answer his cell.....! ....maybe. But it seems that you have likely been wrong and made a fool of yourself in the process, maybe!
In the end, one part of thee answer is, 'just how much of a fool of yourself have you made in his eyes.' And as only he can tell you, it looks like you'll have to ask him.
Good luck.
Sash.
2006-12-20 12:30:24
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answered by sashtou 7
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Not so much wrong as mentally disturbed, it sounds. First, you started by playing games by deliberately being late. Then you let jealousy take over, got sneaky hoping he'd be with another woman. Then, when you found him having fun, you got miffed. And hating your race and avoiding black guys is kinda racist, I would think. Life's going to be very harsh and cruel to you if you don't learn to lighten up and live it a little less selfishly.
Just my opinion, of course.
2006-12-24 23:40:05
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answered by Mr. Peachy® 7
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Oh hun it's got nothing to do with race, lot's of men are bastà@ds. You are so pretty that I get the feeling you will have men falling at your feet, should you go with your initial feeling. Actually I've decided for you, you definitely deserve better, leave him and you go girl. Happy New Year.xx
2006-12-26 08:38:47
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answered by maria bartoninfrance 4
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chill you over reacted you were just in the heat of the moment if you want him back ,swallow your pride and give the guy a call all men have serious issues (you know what i mean)i don't think that you meant that its really over you were just pissed because he was kinda in the half right zone cool down and maybe that will put you in the right state of mind to make a major decision.
2006-12-20 11:14:58
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answered by Anonymous
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thats pretty racist of you to hate your race just cos your guy is black an he treated you like dirt as there is good an bad in every race. just think of it this way decent men are few an far between what ever race they are so you have to work pritty hard yourself to be found by a decent fella. as the saying goes if he is a prince, you better make sure you are a princess.
2006-12-20 11:10:00
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answered by Anonymous
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