One of my workmates is a real pain in the ****, and I am constantly complaining about him to my other workmates. Just now he brought me a really lovely Christmas gift, and I went in and hugged and thanked him. I really do appreciate it. But now I feel horrible, and two-faced… am I being two-faced?
2006-12-20 10:03:18 · 16 answers · asked by Slikemema 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not really, i mean hes annoying but its not like you hate him. he did a nice thing and got rewarded with a hug. so its kind of a lesson that people would be nicer to him if hes nice and wont like him if hes mean
2006-12-20 10:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by VoodooTribe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not really being a two faced but you kind of are.If you have a problem with him dont go snooping around behind his back telling everybody else BUT HIM! He's the one who should know.Tell him in a nice way.Its not good for everybody to know the joke, but him, right? You're talking to the wrong people.They arent going to change him! Talk to him! Good Luck and Happy Holidays ;)
2006-12-20 10:07:50 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not yet , yet i've got not been right here for long. i wouldn't get the possibility the two as violation emails save rolling in day by day. i think its ordinary to be 2 confronted in case you get penalised for talking your strategies and not being anally laptop
2016-12-30 17:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm maybe..i think we all have the tendancy to gossip and complain about others, but because he went on to give u a gift your bound to feel guilty, i guess the best advice is try not to complain as much to ur work m8s about him? instead complain to ur friends who dont know him! as this way u wont have the guilt of knowing ur other co workers know u back chat about him? if u get me? hope taht helps! but remmeber its natural as i said before for ppl to moan/complain about other ppl!!
2006-12-20 10:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by trendy_gal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gruntel_luv:
I would have to say "not" if it occurred only once. Anything more than that then I would agree you are being two face. Another thought would be is to simply share what you have been feeling.
2006-12-20 10:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are you being two faced? let's see.
he's an a**
you complain about him to your co-workers.
he bought something you really like for christmas and you want to keep it...even though he's an a**and you talk s**t about dfhim to your co-workers.
hmmmm....
let's see... uh...YEAH?
but the beautiful thing about it is...
YOUR CO-WORKERS NOW KNOW WHAT AN A** YOU ARE!!
merry christmas!!
2006-12-20 10:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by mama dee 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe - just try to have a little more patience in the future.
2006-12-20 10:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kind of, just try not to gossip all that much. He/she seems to like you. Now you have a guilty conscience...
2006-12-20 10:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah you are, now you just have to stop talking crap behind his back if you sincerely accepted his gift. God's watching your A*ss..........
(only if you believe in him)
2006-12-20 10:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes
2006-12-20 10:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋