1) my cousin is gay. I found out when I was at a gay bar dancing one night with friends. I'm the only one that knows and totally accept it. My family is very old fashioned but he still wants to bring his bf along. I told him xmas probably isn't the best time to come out of the closet but if he wants to, i'd be there to support him if things get rough. Should I dicourage him from comming out and just say his friend is spending xmas alone and that's why he came along? I don't want him to get hurt. I can see someone saying, "you ruined christmas."
2) my family is obsessed with education and always comes down on me for not going to university like my brothers and cousins. I plan to go to school one day but i enjoy spending my time moving around to different places, painting, and working in hotels. I just don't want to hear for the millionth time, "look at your cousin Sue....blah, blah, blah."
Any advice on either or both situations would be great guys.
2006-12-20
02:36:52
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