2006-12-20 03:54:01 · 26 answers · asked by Sandreta S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my boy friend is cheating and i really love him, my school mates are pressurein' me to beat the h*** out of them, and its one thing after another.
2006-12-20 04:03:08 · update #1
make it heaven
2006-12-20 03:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know your situation or what all is causing your life to be a living hell, but I would suggest joining a bookclub/group that have a common goal or hobby and make some new friends. Or, if it is your job find a new one. If it is your family or a close friend, confront them and tell them that you will not allow anyone to treat you badly. Most people don't realize that we can pick and choose who we want in our lives- you don't have to just "put up with it". To change a situation you must make a change in what you are doing, who you put yourself into contact with, etc. Become reliant only on yourself and don't expect others to change your situation or fix things for you. Good luck and thank God every day for the positive things in your life!
2006-12-20 12:04:05 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Erin ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change the way you look at things. The world is a messed up place but you're here so you mihd as well enjoy it. If you don't like something you can change or decide not to let it bother you. If you say it is hell it will stay that way.
2006-12-20 11:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by chris99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can choose what is in your life for the most part. Decide what you will tolerate and what you won't. You didn't specify why it's so hellish. But I am guessing if you just feel that way, you aren't doing much to change it.
If you do the same old thing, you'll get the same old thing! If you want more... ask for it! Demand it!
2006-12-20 11:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by heidifreckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating on you, then its quite obvious the level of love he feels for you is not even close to what you feel for him. Why do you tolereate this from him? Do you like being treated like dirt? I doubt it. I suggest you dump him like a hot potato and maybe find some news friends to hang with.
2006-12-20 12:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too general. post more details. That way you can get suggestions on how to go about fixing things OK?
Don't despair. again. put in more details and we will all try and help you out, there are some great people on this forum with some fantastic ideas and life experience.
Looking forward to helping you out,
2006-12-20 11:59:25 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CHANGE IT! No one is here to make you happy; it's alll up to you. If you don't like your job, get another or go back to school. If you are having problems with your significant other, dump that one and find another. Recognize what you can change and change it. No more hell..
2006-12-20 11:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by Marilyn S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to fight someone if they choose to be with other people and it sounds as tho you need to go out and find yourself and what makes you happy get away from all negative and just enjoy life.
2006-12-20 12:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by doodiemoonwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all... why is your life a living hell? if it's something serious, then get help. if it's just something you're feeling... talk to someone. go shopping- let off some steam!!!
there's always a better tomorrow and remember there is someone who is going through much worse than you are....
cheer UP!
2006-12-20 11:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by tooxswt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dump the jerk and walk away with your head held high. Then find someone worthy of you and forget about the hell you're leaving behind.
2006-12-20 12:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by changing one thing at a time until all your problems are dissolved.
2006-12-20 11:57:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋