I have a boyfriend and I love him to death and I dont want to lose him but I just want some me time. He seems to understand and never is a burden to me. But I think its a turning point or something.
2006-12-20 03:36:58 · 9 answers · asked by FASHION*DIVA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hey Hon. Do not worry, go with your feelings, it's OK to take time and clear your head, if he does not understand this then it's his problem not yours. Also, it's all in how you say it, right? Be gentle about it, Don't make it a personal war, Tell him that you are going through some issues with your family/close friend and need to be there for them, sometimes its' best to spare your man the whole truth, till you figure things out for yourself,
Good luck
2006-12-20 03:55:41 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I agree with everyone else everyone needs that alone time. It help when you can have it for me it makes it easier to deal with life & etc, I'm a single mom trying to raise a 13 year old & a 10 year & thats stressful enough plus I have a full time job also so I enjoy that time alone just to do whatever I want to. Im sure your boyfriend understand it & I'm also sure he like the alone time also, it's not a truning point in no means it away you can enjoy time away from each other than when you two are together you appericate each other more I think & believe. I know that if I was in relationship I would have to have some alone time because everyone needs it once in awhile.
2006-12-20 11:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by mssassy0104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a busy time of the year,everyone is doing extra & feeling the pressure. Take some down time.
Put your head phone on hit the track
or soak in the tub.Better yet go to Starbucks & then hit the spa...I meet you there !!
2006-12-20 11:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by LCee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep,everyonegets restless,usually a sign that the relationship is moving into a new level,something you are not sure u r ready for.so you wan2 run,he`s acceptance of this means he is also slightly confused and is hoping u will make the final desicion.talk it over,u never know what u might discover.goodluck.
2006-12-20 11:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by chipdtuth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you, just hope that he will when you ask him for "me" time. If he loves you as much as you love him, there should not be a problem. He will wait for you. Best wishes.
2006-12-20 11:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not...everyone needs thier own time... especially if you are into a very stressful job and have issues to deal with
But how long does your "me" time last? is it days or months? than yes your relationship is not working
2006-12-20 11:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Someday 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs time to themselves, no need to feel bad about it.
Give it a break and then you two will get along better because of it.
2006-12-20 11:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope .to many people love me
2006-12-20 11:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda seems selfish to me...
2006-12-20 11:42:22 · answer #9 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋