Other - Family & Relationships - 20 December 2006

2006-12-20 13:57:29 · 2 answers · asked by ga75s 2

2006-12-20 13:56:57 · 25 answers · asked by Kris 1

Hi. i'm currently involved with a guy for a little over a yr. when we have a good time, he's so sweet.. But when I say no to him for sex, we argue, andfor many hours. He starts using guilt trips, saying hes always been screw over and this is what he gets for being a good boyfriend. Usually, he's decent, and looks out for my best interest, but in two weeks go by, and we cant be imtimate, his anger rises. (We dont live together) but if i say no to sex for whatever rweason, he gets so mad, he yells, cursees, punches furniture, but he doesnt touvh me. Even if we are at his house and his parents are home, he still yells at me, and curses while his mother is there. He then cries, because he is so "sexually frustrated" and continues with the guilt trips. I wanted to know if using guilt is a form of emotional abuse, and also believeing that if he doesnt have sex within a week, he'll go crazy, and hurt someone. I already know I should leave, and I'm working on it..

2006-12-20 13:44:01 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5

I just started working my new job and I don't have that much money and my girlfriend fails to realize that. She wants me to buy her a 400 dollar bracelet, which means I would have to borrow the money to get it. I want to make her happy, but that's too much to borrow. What should I do?

2006-12-20 13:40:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-20 13:32:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok sometimes he thinks hes a girl and says hes an girl and sometimes he says that hes a boy and everything like that!1 he's three almost four and spends lots of times w/ these two girls cuz my mom is friends w/ their moms...like now i'm asking him if he's a boy or irl and hes saying that hes a girl!! i'm really worried cuz i don't want him to grow up and change his sex like some ppl do...and no offence but i think those ppl are really nuts and weird...i just don't want that!! will he grow out of it?? help!!

2006-12-20 13:29:37 · 13 answers · asked by magictanya2003 2

i was beat up everyday in school when in the 1, 2,3 ,4 and,5 grades and i feel like i cant forget the people or forgive them becuz they were in the same grade as me every year how do i forgive them??? becuz i feel like its messing up my relationship swith others cuz i dont want to be hurt like that again?? help! plzz!

2006-12-20 13:25:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well today it was so odd because i tried talking to my boyfriend face to face and he didnt want to look at me eye to eye..instead he decides to look away. When i asked him what was wrong he said nothing. When i made him look into my eyes and talk to me he started sheding slight tears and i asked him again what was wrong and he didnt want to tell me why. i asked him again later and he said because he was happy to be with me, is that true, seem like a lie. Do any of you know the reason why? Help me please im so stressed out. thank you

2006-12-20 13:00:22 · 21 answers · asked by kitty 1

2006-12-20 12:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by peepeepoopoo 1

Claims she cant trust me but i belive she is unable to trust herself. Im still in love with her .

2006-12-20 12:37:03 · 17 answers · asked by soul d 1

2006-12-20 12:32:03 · 14 answers · asked by bob 2

I meet a kind man, he is an africa-american. We chat warmly online. He invites me to go out with him this weekend. Can you show me some suggestions?

Thank you!

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2006-12-20 12:30:43 · 6 answers · asked by Suny L 1

2006-12-20 12:27:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

u belong to a closely knit family 1 day you recieved a letter from your aunt abroad & say that she can arrang your travel documents so that u can join her. you know that it is your one chance of a lifetime & your parents gave you the opportunity to decide what will your decision be? y?.... pls. help me..

2006-12-20 12:26:20 · 3 answers · asked by tweetyanne2003 1

my partner wants to have sex on Sunday night when I arrive and move in with her and of course I am going to give her what she wants its just I'm a bit worried I might accidently hurt her as she has been raped twice by the same guy (her nasty ex) and even though she says I can do whatever I would like to her I am just scared that I may make her cry with pain and thats not what I want at all....I have said that I am going to be asking her before I do alot, like before going "down on her" so I am just looking for some advice as to how I can conquer my fears of hurting her and causing her any sorts of pain..

I love her with all my heart and soul I always will and I just want to do whats best for her in the longrun.....

Ideas please everyone but dont give stupid answers as I care about her, she's all I care about and love so please be serious.

thanks
Mitch :)

ps: have a good christmas and safe new year

2006-12-20 12:19:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy that i like.....but he is the bf of my cousin...yesterday, he talked to me and said that he would break up with her and wanted me to to be his gf.....would i agree with him breaking up with my cuz or no......why?

2006-12-20 12:16:42 · 18 answers · asked by ρυяρℓє ♥ 2

Please no mean comments. When me and my boyfriend went to college in August we were 200 miles away from each other. Things started going bad and I broke up with him then I ended up sleepin with one of my friends.It hurt him so bad but he took me back and said he forgave me. I went through and am still in one of the most depressive stages of my life. I've totally changed and will NEVER treat him like that again. but he's having the hardest time getting close to me again.I just cant do this no more. I hate myself for hurting him. every day I live with this enourmous guilt and I just wanna end it all and I dont know how I'm gonna get the love of my life back to me. Even though we've been together for a year we have talked about marriage and now that's all ruined. I want to marry this man and treat him like a king for the rest of my life but it is just so hard. I know he will need time to trust me again but everyday I feel so guilty. I cant do this.Someone please help.no mean comments

2006-12-20 12:08:48 · 16 answers · asked by texastreasure 3

dont give funny answers

2006-12-20 12:01:19 · 7 answers · asked by ani 1

I have said some pretty nasty things to a friend of mine because I was feeling upset and hurt by them,I now deeply regret my actions as some of the things I said where really nasty I feel I really need to apologies to this person as I feel very ashamed of myself and I was wondering if sending a nice gift basket and a card expresing my remorse would be the right thing to do it's really buging me.I should never have said theses thingsas I truely care for this person .

2006-12-20 12:00:46 · 17 answers · asked by flossypants 4

What would you do?

2006-12-20 11:53:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiancee and i have been together for almost 2 years. When we first started going out everything was amazing. We had so much fun and we were very passionate. I would feel so excited just to see her. Now it is completely different. I am still in love with her and want to be with her but it seems like its one drama after another and she is never happy. And recently its gotten even worse. She broke her foot so I drove 100 miles to bring her her favorite food and take care of her but she was still upset. She ran up $1,000s in credit card debt on my cards and now she is mad that I cant afford a house and I dont want to get a dog and that I am having trouble finding a new roommate. Then recently she said that she felt like she was overweight, of coarse I told he she was beautiful and I dont think there is anything wrong but she went to Jenny Craig and got upset that I was trying to figure out how to pay $1,000 per month for it. Im just not happy and she barely wants to get out of bed now.

2006-12-20 11:52:36 · 11 answers · asked by Eniva1 2

Hes cheated and lied to me so much...i really don't know what to think or what to believe from him..why is he still telling me that he loves me i really do not think that he does he wouldn't of cheated on me and wouldn't lie to me so freaking much if he loved me right?...so why do YOU think hes saying it is it still possible that he does????
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2006-12-20 11:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

anybody went to salt lake skate park yesterday and then to the mainline skate shop in pacific?

looking for a girl i saw yesterday but i have never seen her in my life.

2006-12-20 11:46:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

All of my relationships have failed.Is it me or is it them?Iam tired of being all alone,no,feeling all alone.

2006-12-20 11:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by Jill C 1

is it wrong to be in love with a person other than your current partner? I love my partner but know that I am not "in love" with him because I am in love with someone else

2006-12-20 11:35:32 · 8 answers · asked by janalovefox 1

Ok I need to find a gift for my dad. It has to be really practical. I got him a shaving kit for him last year that he loves. Unfortunatly, I can't get it again this year lol. He isn't really into sports, my mom cooks for him, and he doesnt play golf, or use MP3 players lol... See my dilema!? On top of this I can only spend like 50 bucks.... So yeah if you can give me some ideas it would be great! (also, I don't shop online & I don't want to go all around the world. Target, Wal-Mart, Dillards, Macys,,, you got the idea.)

2006-12-20 11:35:01 · 4 answers · asked by Miss Thang 2

This is my boyfriend and I's first Christmas together and we can't agree on who's family to spend it with: mine, his or both. He normally visits both sets of Grandparents on Christmas and I eat dinner at my brothers house. Dinner at his Grandparents is at noon, so it makes perfect sense that we would visit there for a while then leave for my brothers house later in the evening but my boyfriend insists we each do our own thing instead of reaching a compromise. I get the impression family is very important to him and he wants to spend all day with them but I would like to see each of our families, as well as each other on Christmas. Any ideas of how I could get across to him without making a huge deal out of everything and potentially upsetting him?

2006-12-20 11:33:10 · 17 answers · asked by Desiree 5

she called me a ****!!!! just because i was wearing a mini skirt, a tight shirt, and fishnet stockings

2006-12-20 11:28:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 weeks ago I caught my 14 year old son wearing his sister's leotard and tights. I immeadiately put him over my knee and spanked him right there. I told him to change and never wear them again. Yesterday when I came home from work I caught him wearing the same leotard and tights and her high heel boots. I took off my belt and put him over my knee for an even harder spanking. When I finished spanking him I told him that I never wanted to see him wearing those again. Today when I got home I caught him wearing a different leotard and tights with boots and he was masturbating on his sister's bed. I didn't spank him this time and he says he just likes the way it feels when he wears them. I just don't know what to do now!
How do I fix this?

2006-12-20 11:25:27 · 9 answers · asked by Mike Smith 2

Ran all day to get the car fixed, go to the store for dinner, pick up a cake and gift for your mother-in-law, got a call on the way home that your kids were broke down in my daughters car (strange we all broke down the same day), had to run back to town again to look at the car and get it back home. Only to arrive at home to your husband who is mad KNOWING what all has happend, is mad because he didn't make it to his mothers at the given time. He acted as though I was out having a good time while he wanted to go to his moms. He yelled at me because I couldn't get it done fast enough. Then on the way home later after his mothers, he is mad because he didn't eat because I was gone all day, (he was home to make something) I told him I picked up groceries to make dinner. he stops at Subway and walks in leaves us (me&kids) in the car and gets Himself a sub. By the way the car I was getting towed is the one he drives that broke down while he had it out.

2006-12-20 11:24:36 · 6 answers · asked by Mary Jane 2