All of my relationships have failed.Is it me or is it them?Iam tired of being all alone,no,feeling all alone.
2006-12-20 11:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by Jill C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oo hunnny.
Yes, there is someone out there for you. But love has yet to come accross you, not because of you. if you are an honest person and funloving, you are doing everything right. just keep your heart happy, and dont give up.
good luck, love
-Brooke
2006-12-20 11:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are trying too hard, I think you should go out with the intentions of having a really good time and don't think about a relationship, that is when it will happen for you. Good luck to you. I hope you find your special someone, no one should feel alone when there are so many people in this world.
2006-12-20 19:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is...don't give up. In the process of finding that soul mate find you some people that you can associate with that make you feel good about yourself, and relax...find joy in the things around you and I believe that if you give out positive energy ,then at some point that positive energy will respond in kind...usually the prize that you are looking for is sometimes starring you in the face...take inventory of the people around you,but at the same time don't look for the earth to shake as some sot of emotional sign,somebody is there you just have to "discover" them.
2006-12-20 19:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by iamhhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to figure out the reason ALL of your relationships failed? Sometimes, we as human beings have to evaluate ourselves and determine the reason different people choose to leave. Spend a little more time alone and determine what do you want out of a relationship. Ask yourself what do you want in a relationship and what do you expect from a partner. Once you have figured that out, find out what you are willing to give in a relationship (not materialistic things). Once you find that person, take things slow and get to know them. Communicate with each other and tell each other what you all expect from the relationship and from each other. It takes time to find true love. So continue to be patient. Good Luck.
2006-12-20 19:52:50 · answer #4 · answered by stergre1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There are no such things as soul mates.
You just need to find a person with integrity, whom you want to love and who will support you in realizing your dreams. This can be a man or a woman, and not just one. Romance is probably a bad idea for you at this point, because it's so easy and painful to screw up.
Since you have a history of bad relationships, you probably attract jerks. They're drawn to people who are easy to walk all over.
Get some non-romantic friends. You have to walk before you run.
2006-12-20 19:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Jill if they have all failed you do need to take a look at what you role is in the relationships ending. Are you too giving? too willing to do for others? Having sex to soon? Not playing hard to get? Reflect on what you do in your relationships and at what point things seem to go wrong. I bet you'll detect a pattern if you really take an honest look. It wouldn't hurt to talk things through with a professional counselor or therapist either.
2006-12-20 19:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Nora D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jill ~
After my divorce, I filled up my lonely hours by chatting on the Christian internet sites. I joined 3 Christian internet sights and found my fiance at one of them. Now, if you want someone a bit closer, then contact some local Churchs that have singles ministries. That is a great way to make male and female friends and find some decent men to date.
Don't give up; God loves us and doesn't want us to be lonely. Just remember to allow God to bring that man to you; keep God as #1 in your life; have Him as your Pilot (not co-pilot) in your life, and things really will fall into place!
Keep up the hope! Don't stop trying!
122006 6:48
2006-12-20 19:48:12 · answer #7 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself into something really special that a really special guy would want. Such as join big sisters, do community service, volunteer at church, find a new hobby, take a class. Then put yourself in a position to meet really nice guys. Then don't rush it, get to know someone and develop a friendship i.e. let him court you. That's what lifetime commitments are built on.
2006-12-20 19:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by it's me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the book called "How to be an adult in relationships" by David Richo. You can order it from Amazon.com.
It's a good book without being preachy and talks about why relationships work or don't, how to tune in better to yourself so you know your patterns and how to make healthy choices and how your childhood might have factored in to some of those decisions.
2006-12-20 19:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally I don't believe in soul mates...it is much too illogical an idea...6 billion plus people and we are only supposed to be with one of them...umm ya no thanks..would like to believe we all have more than 1 soul mate and that includes friends, family etc...
however besides the point..maybe you should see what the common thread is for all your previous relationships...did you act a certain way through all of them? finding a common reaction or scenario can make it easier to find out what it is that went wrong
be optimistic....there are people out there for everyone!
and have faith!
2006-12-20 19:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by Louisa C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋