Claims she cant trust me but i belive she is unable to trust herself. Im still in love with her .
2006-12-20 12:37:03 · 17 answers · asked by soul d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i say just make everything about the baby, make sure you show her and everyone else that you are in love with this baby that hasn't even got to breathe in air yet! i wouldn't get to hung up on her because i also agree that the people that are "not trusting you" are the ones that can't be trusted.. if her feelings have changed about you and she just doesn't love you anymore, then you'll have to except that and move on, but do not miss out on your childs life.. kids need dads in their life more then anyone could ever explain... i wish you nothing but the best and i hope you have a healthy baby, boy or girl! hope you have a merry christmas and a very happy new year!
2006-12-20 12:46:27 · answer #1 · answered by ~broken~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, step up to the plate because that is your child so she can't call you a deadbeat father. Maybe this will help her see the light.......that you are worth taking back and having a loving family one day.
You must have cheated?
Or always lying......shape up or ship out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you love her there should be noone or nothing that should make you hurt her unto the point she does not trust and doesnt want to be with you and she is expecting your child!
2006-12-20 12:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by mizznini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force her to be with you, but you do have to get along for the child. Just be there for her and the baby, do what you can, and don't talk bad about her. If you guys were meant to be together, she'll come around. Keep in mind that her hormones are probably going crazy. That tends to happen when your pregnant. Good Luck and take care of your kid.
2006-12-20 12:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm I don't even know you and you're already annoying me, so I don't blame her for giving you the boot. Get over it, just cause she's having your baby doesn't mean she has to be with you! Get a life worry about supporting that child and leave her alone before she gets a restraining order on your ***.
2006-12-20 12:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you do? Well for the next 18 years you pay child support IF its yours. I'd make her get a paternity test before signing anything.
2006-12-20 12:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by Haven17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so you have to tell her you want to be in the child life and you are going to be paying for some of the kids stuff that he or she might need just stay wiht your kid
2006-12-20 12:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is to talk to her and find out why she feels the way she does. Give her some time to deal with her feelings.
2006-12-20 12:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make her able to trust you and if she don't want to do that then you know she doesn't want to be with you. she is making excuses. what i mean make her be able to trust you is to tell here everything she wants to know and if you have a cell phone let her look in it. things like that. hope this helps. if she just doesn't care, act like you don't care and it will bother her.
2006-12-20 12:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by me_myself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be here for the child, and if you are meant to be together great, but if not, then the child will still always be a part of you
2006-12-20 12:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by randini692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that and if it doesnt work out then u need to show her u are responsible pay ur child support be ther wen she has the baby help her buy the baby its need show her u are responsible
2006-12-20 12:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by Andrea C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋