there's this guy that i like.....but he is the bf of my cousin...yesterday, he talked to me and said that he would break up with her and wanted me to to be his gf.....would i agree with him breaking up with my cuz or no......why?
2006-12-20 12:16:42 · 18 answers · asked by ρυяρℓє ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should stop liking him. How would you like it if you were going out with him and he went up to some other girl and told her he'd break up with you to go out with her? He's a player! Tell your cousin what he said, and if she's smart, she'll break up with HIM and neither of you should go out with him! What a loser!
2006-12-20 12:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by Geoff S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends is your cousin truly in love with him , if she's kinda in the center whether she doesn't know if she likes him or not i don't she would mind, just make shure your cousin's ok with it. DOn't forget when you do things in secrecy it cause a lot of problems so you should always tell the person who might be involved with waht you do know what's going on. I mean i think your cousin will understand since her BF fell in love with you, she can't do anything to change her BF;s heart. Love is something a person chooses so if you really love him go for it.
2006-12-20 20:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by akemi chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...because two years from now there will be another girl. Only this time you will be the one getting broken up with. Not to mention the relationship with your cousin would be over. Use the 10,10,10 rule. You think about what the consequences of your decision will be in 10 minutes, 10 months, and 10 years. It really puts things into perspective.
2006-12-20 20:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I see an upcoming show on Jerry Springer. Steer clear of family's b/f or g/f. It only causes a ton of problems and if he is willing to break up with her to go with you then he will do the same thing to you. He sounds like a loser and your cousin will be your cousin for life.
2006-12-20 20:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You do not need your cousin's bf. Get your own. You will just cause hurt feelings in your family. This guy is a loser for even thinking about getting between you and a family member!
2006-12-20 20:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it... unless you're close to your cousin, because she'll probably hate you if she finds out.
He obviously likes you more than her - he doesn't seem like he's too into her in the first place, so he'd probably dump her anyway. Just make sure that he *does* dump her before you start dating him...otherwise he may change his mind, or end up cheating on her while you think they broke up.
And that'll just open up a whole new can of worms, so to speak.
2006-12-20 20:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sailor Jupiter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would look at it this way... he is so ready to break up with your cousin for you so quickly .... think about when he'll break up with you for some other girl just as fast...How would you like that? so to answer your question no i would not agree with him breaking up with your cousin
2006-12-20 20:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by miss B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
if you value the friendship of your cousin
it will hurt her
and he is not very kind either by dating your cousin and now wants to date you
sounds like a player to me
he will do the same thing to you that he is doing to your cousin now
2006-12-20 20:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family always comes first no matter what! cos at the end of the day they are you family and ur stuck wit them! u can treat them like **** but they will always be there, tell ur cousin that he has said this and not let her get hurt, its unfair on her to be treated like that by a prick!!
2006-12-20 20:19:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no its ur cousin relationship worth lossing for some guy u never knoe he might do something to u like dat so think worht lossing cousin for a some guy who might not be worth it
2006-12-20 20:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by lacheechee2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋