Hi. i'm currently involved with a guy for a little over a yr. when we have a good time, he's so sweet.. But when I say no to him for sex, we argue, andfor many hours. He starts using guilt trips, saying hes always been screw over and this is what he gets for being a good boyfriend. Usually, he's decent, and looks out for my best interest, but in two weeks go by, and we cant be imtimate, his anger rises. (We dont live together) but if i say no to sex for whatever rweason, he gets so mad, he yells, cursees, punches furniture, but he doesnt touvh me. Even if we are at his house and his parents are home, he still yells at me, and curses while his mother is there. He then cries, because he is so "sexually frustrated" and continues with the guilt trips. I wanted to know if using guilt is a form of emotional abuse, and also believeing that if he doesnt have sex within a week, he'll go crazy, and hurt someone. I already know I should leave, and I'm working on it..
2006-12-20 13:44:01 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yea think about it. i would not want a man who has temper tantrums! hes a cry baby!
2006-12-20 13:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Wow hes definitely got some issues... Any man that doesnt respect that fact that you dont want to be sexually intimate can go to hell! If he doesn't respect that that is the worst button you could possibly press..even if he treats you alright it doesnt mean much because he can keep his penis in his pants, I would get rid of him... Remember there is always somebody better, dream high! Good luck.
2006-12-20 21:47:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kablina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is a form of emotional abuse. If he loves you he should respect you when you say no and not put you through guilt trips. Even though he is not hitting you he is still hurting you and that is abuse
2006-12-20 21:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by saliberry 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that's not cool if he really loves u then he shouldn't act like that cause it's going 2 push u away from wanting 2 have sex with him it should be what u both want and the days u just want 2 chill or lay together that should be good 4 him 2
2006-12-20 21:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by greeny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a born wife beater!!! RUN LIKE HELL!!! My EX-Husband did that stuff and was always trying to be the tough guy...he never touched me until after we were married and then when I got pregnant he started tossing me around like a rag doll...I ended up in the hospital...if he is not ashamed of yelling at you in front of his mother I wonder how he treats his mom??? RUN GIRL RUN!!!
2006-12-20 22:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being abused and if you stay you will eventually be his punching bag, I hope you listen and run as fast as you can. Why is he still living at home!
2006-12-20 21:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust your instincts...I am going to guess this guy is young and/or very immature. Mature adults, ideally, learn to delay gratification if need be. He is disrespecting and abusing you and the boundaries you are setting with him. My advice is to leave him, you don't have to work on it, just leave, and work on it after you leave...good luck!
2006-12-20 21:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋