Other - Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

my man got me pregnant again on our second child. never had any gorl problems with him till i was 7 months pregnant of our second baby boy and i found out they were talking and then he left the house due to when i found out and then when i give birth to his child his ex tells me how she is 3 1/2 months pregnant by him and he admits to it but wants her to get an abortion and stay with me like nothing happen....I love him sooo much but the betrayal is enough to let him go.. we been together for 5 years and have two beautiful boys and he wants to go to counseling and help our relationship before it ends but i love him and would love to work things out for our kids and myseld but i feel sooo betrayed, lied to. especially that he made a fool of me!!!!!

2006-12-17 23:52:59 · 15 answers · asked by nana 1

He yelled at me yesterday because I sent him and mom a holiday card in the mail. He said that I should spend .50 on card and .39 for a stamp. He said that since I visit every other weekend, I shouldn't spend money on cards and might lose my job in the next few months. He is mad because I wouldn't write his Christmas cards to his friends and neighbors that he hadn't seen for several years. They don't call him or visit him why should he waste money on cards and postage. That was a mean thing he said to me. He said that I am so mean because I wouldn't write out his cards for him. He said did you write to cousin so and so. I told him last week, I told him no because I don't want to write any Christmas cards. I just limited to my brother and my parents, boyfriend and two close friends really. I just want to reduce my Christmas card list for economic and personal reasons. I told him that that is his X-mas card list not mine. Am I wrong for standing up to him for rejecting my card

2006-12-17 23:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by Contessa 2

I'm in my early 20's with a 6 month old baby. I am a single mum but have been seeing a really lovely guy for the past 2 months (he is not the baby's dad).

He's great with my baby, but his parents aren't. He's told me that they don't approve of me, and want him to end it with me simply because I have a baby.

This is putting quite a bit of strain on our relationship and I don't know if I can take much more. He says he loves me, and it doesn't bother him that I have a baby.

I don't want to cause a rift between him and his parents though. Help!

2006-12-17 23:44:20 · 16 answers · asked by Don't Tickle Elmo 2

The two have completely different ways.

2006-12-17 23:41:53 · 17 answers · asked by Queen 5

2006-12-17 23:40:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have not spoken to my sister in 13 years since our mother passed away . Im not missing out on anything as she is not the nicest person and she is racist and Im in a mixed relationship with two mixed daughters .
But even though Im not really that bothered if she is in my life or not should I make the effort one last time ...........

2006-12-17 23:28:58 · 30 answers · asked by C 3

2006-12-17 23:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by Dark soul 2

I have a sister-in-law that I have bent over backwards to be kind to and she is nasty to me regardless. Why???

2006-12-17 23:25:52 · 7 answers · asked by HI 2

I personally would go for looks.After being with the biggest man pig of all times id rather have someone that didnt make me retch over the breakfast table.

2006-12-17 23:22:56 · 22 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

I've known plenty of women who woud openly admint to wanting to go with a woman but none of my male (straight) friends have. Are they just hidding it, it is more acceptable for women to be bi or what?

2006-12-17 22:57:41 · 1 answers · asked by Kitty 2

I have recently broken up with my friend who has manic depressiondue to an argument we had, we work in same organisation. Basically I really cared for her and ended up telling her supposed partner who is living with his girlfriend that she was sleeping around, which she was, I did this because I felt that he was using her and she kept on saying the same to me.

It has now been 4 months, and I have contacted her by e-mail 3 times asking how she is and whether we can be friends. I also rang her house and apologised. Now she has reported me to the harrassment team, I have never threatened her ever and I wouldn't because I still care for her.

Was she justified in doing this? Was I harrassing her?

2006-12-17 22:36:27 · 9 answers · asked by dfsdg d 1

I'm 4 months pregnant and me and my partner have a 9 month old baby. Because
I had a cesearean so recently my scar may be beginning to split. At the
weekend my partner and I were invited to a party, well I can't dance etc
with the scar so he said he would take me for a meal and cinema instead....
The week running up to it I was looking forward to it then on Saturday
suddenly WHAM he decided to go to the party without me instead and left my
in with the baby,

I called him that night, he was drunk and nasty, he split up with me, told
me he wished he never got me pregnant, that I was a bad mother etc

The next day he turned up at 3pm - don't know where he was I'd been awake
all night. He apologised and said he didn't mean anything and loves me. I
took him back, but how do I get revenge???
Now I don't want to leave him or really hurt him but I want him to realise and feel bad for what he put me through

2006-12-17 22:14:20 · 27 answers · asked by sassielassie 2

i dont want to make any moves because if he likes me i belive that he should make the first move we are really good friends and i am not sure if we are friends or more plz help

2006-12-17 22:13:57 · 4 answers · asked by mysweetkato 1

How do you perceive an arrogant man? Is it an attractive trait? where does arrogance come from and how should it be dealt with?

2006-12-17 22:10:49 · 3 answers · asked by Curious George 2

Hi. I need your help real bad. My family is havin some (big) financial difficulty. we are close to $ 42,000 (yes that's rite forty two thousand dollars in DEBT!)
Althought I have enough money to get thru college for two more semisters, I have been thinking of helpin my parents out by workin full time (i already work part time) My parents are tryin their best by keepin me away from this matter and are tellin me to concentrate on my studies only. I have conveyed the idea of me working full time to my mom...but she gets upset thinking that they are not doing a good job of providing for us.
They have been excellent parents but i just feel obligated to help them out. I don't know wether i should work full time as soon as my fall semsiter ends or if i should continue on with college next semister. I am not giving up on my college but will only be out for a semister or two at most.
I will have to lie to my mom about me goign to college and actually leaving for work. Wut should i do? hel

2006-12-17 22:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by Mike 1

2006-12-17 22:07:07 · 2 answers · asked by Unhinged.... 5

I am pregnant and doctor advised me to take complete rest. So, i cannot go out of my home.

Pls suggest some lovely gift that i can give to my darling husband. We have been married for nearly 5 yrs. May be i'll have to send someone to purchase it.
Whats yr opinion. ?

2006-12-17 22:00:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the charateristics of a loser? Are you a loser?
What makes the difference between a loser and a winner?

2006-12-17 21:09:59 · 8 answers · asked by . 3

2006-12-17 20:53:44 · 7 answers · asked by satyakumar p 1

need help to be able to have a smoothsailing happy christmas w/ my family w/o them trying to cause harm to each other. plz say a prayer for me. thank you ever.
and i pray and hope that each an everyone of you all out there a very mery christmas.

2006-12-17 20:52:17 · 8 answers · asked by everyone just calls me mom 1

Yes, I am tall. I was tall n am even taller. Sometimes I just love it being this tall and people say tall girls are much more popular with guys. That may be true. Many shorter guys come to me but still I wanna find some one special who is taller than me.

So is it really that hard for tall girls to do so? I don't have a serious relationship with anyone now. And I am still seeking and waiting for my Tall lover. Am I wrong? Should I settle down NOW?

So what would you do with all guys around shorter than you? Tell me please...

2006-12-17 20:21:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i go to church with the man next door there was a comment made about his daughter having a bad additude he said "tell her to be havie or i will take a belt to her " it reallly has upset me to think this 16 yr old get hit with a belt i spoke up and said she is too old for a spanking he told me as long as he feeds her she wasnt what should i do mind my bussiness or what?

2006-12-17 20:01:12 · 14 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6

2006-12-17 19:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by JKL 1

i met two guys on the internet i mean i know them from my friends but one is in uk and one is in china and they are both goodlookin they claim they wanna be with me both want to come and visit they both know each other but dont know that i talk to the other,i like both i dont know who to pick the uk one is stylish but my friends claim his not worht it but i like him a little bit more the other one was married but divorced and he calls me everyday sounds serious but i dont trust them coz their both players.help me please

2006-12-17 19:33:32 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1

Well my boyfriend and I just got our new dorm assignments for next semester. We are in the same dorm on the same floor! There's over 50,000 people at UT and there's TONS of dorms. What are the chances we were assigned on the same floor?? This past semester we lived in different dorms which was far enough to keep our own space, but close enough to walk. I'm so worried that we're going to want to kill each other before the semester ends. I know there are good things about living so close to each other, but I definitely see more cons than pros in this situation. We're very close, but not ready to live together and that's what I feel this will be like. I know he's worried about it too so that helps. I'm just worried we will get on each other's nerves and not have any time to ourselves or any privacy. We need to have a plan of attack...like rules we have to follow or something like that. I just don't want to be the annoying girlfriend who just randomly shows up or something like that.

2006-12-17 19:15:38 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

my boyfriend and i havent been together that long (about 3 months) but we're in a very deep relationship. hes 21 and i'm 18. he tells me he doesnt want to introduce me to his parents because his parents arent that important to him in his life (plenty of drama when he was younger and now he lives on his own with a friend, supporting himself). i understand that, but i'm kinda traditional so i like meeting my boyfriend's parents. should i give it up and just not meet his parents? or should i try to get him to give in? and if i should keep trying, how can i get him to let me meet his parents? i'm good friends with his 19 year old brother and i'm a little jealous that he wants to introduce his girlfriend into the family and my boyfriend doesnt. advice anyone?

2006-12-17 18:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by one&only<3 4

How do you make out I have never done it before and tomorrow my boyfriend and I are going on a date and coming back to my house. What if he wants to make out?? HOW?????

2006-12-17 18:45:24 · 13 answers · asked by Bordering Suicide 2

2006-12-17 17:53:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been hiring a maid but flea with many reasons. I felt its unsecure to send my baby's to nursery. Do they really bad as wht i read/heard on news?Do they feed my kids ontime?and so on..

2006-12-17 17:52:31 · 13 answers · asked by CHeah COmel 1

My sister gets really mad at me for stupid things like not giving the pencil to her or when she gets in trouble for being late to school,I don't say anything and my mom yells at her.Same thing happened to me (the school thing),my mom yelled at me and my sister did too,she started saying 'Oh your so stupid'..She started telling her friends all this bullshit about me and she wont stop it.Shes hypocritical and is very annoying.Sometimes shes okay...but I hate her.What should i do?

2006-12-17 17:44:27 · 10 answers · asked by Deanna 3