I was in a 5 year relationship and we recently broke up. He no longer loved me but it wasn't because he stopped being attracted to me but because we had problems in the past. I was jealous, controlling, and I hurt him with my bad temper. However, there were other parts of me that were great and even he sees that. I was always faithful and I helped him out when he was lonely, sad, broke, etc etc. Basically I loved him but I was young and didn't know how to manage my emotions. Now I am 21 and I honestly see my faults and have actually changed a lot because upon seeing who I was I became angry with myself and knew I had to change for myself not for him. He even told me he thought I was the one and that if it had not been for those negative things we could have had something amazing. So do you guys think if negative things in a relationship are fixed it can one day work again? And I mean fixed because each person does it to improve themselves not just to get the other back. Any examples?
2006-12-17
15:59:07
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