Other - Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

What i really wanna know is what would you do if your spouse/BF cant perform/have sex with you?

2006-12-13 23:33:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do i do, we have been together for 9 yrs and he knows that getting off looking at other woman really upsets me so why does he do this. not the first time this has happened and he swore to me it would never happen again. i moved out the first time and he tried everything in his power to prove to me that he wouldn't do it again and he was sorry for doing it. and that he loved me very much and he only wanted me. but however he has done it again. WHAT SHOULD I DO? i love him so much and could'nt imagine life without him. we were trying for a baby for about 5-6 years and were meant to be starting fertility treatment at the end of october which i have now cancelled, as i caught him masterbating on the 18th and we had only made love about 10 times in the past 4 months. i asked him to make love on the monday before hand and he said NO cause he was watching something on tv. and he then told me that he has ejaculated only the once, which was that monday, this was my most fertile day.

2006-12-13 23:25:32 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2

I am 25 and have a boyfren whom is 36, for one and a half year. All this while we have been loving, thou conflicts happens sometime. He is running a small electronic retail business and has to werk 7 days a week, we meet everyday, but only in the evening when he knocked off. Unlike a year ago he was keep thinking of commiting and get married with me.. I mean hinting me, but i always give excuses like i'm too young, things may happen and so on.. Right now I really feel like settling down and have a family, kids, watever u can think of being with a family, which I think he is not anymore.. Its obvious as in, i told him I hope to have a kid as soon, hope not to date longer, he was not young anymore.. but he wasn't giving me any commitments, nither does he says anything, well he would just put off with, keeping silent or "ok" for all the time. I just don't understand, what he is thinking, or why does a guy at this age still doesnt want to settle down and have a family

2006-12-13 22:44:09 · 8 answers · asked by ConfuseD 1

we were going out for about 9 months he lived with me and my kids for a month of that time. we all got along great. i helped him step back into school and now he lives some where else and we broke up because he would never come home and his room mate thinks i am not good enough for him what do i do i am so in lov

2006-12-13 22:39:59 · 10 answers · asked by AMY W 1

my husbands grandparents... they are literally millionaires. We dont have a lot of money and I have no idea what to get them and their adopted daughter who is 11. They have everything they need and I want it to be something thoughtful but I just draw a blank. My grandfather doesn't like to eat out at resturants and my grandmother already has someone cleaning for her.. and the adopted child goes to a private school and has everything she could ever want... any ideas?

2006-12-13 22:38:48 · 10 answers · asked by michelle_az_22 3

my ex and i broke up a while ago. he says hhe loves me . he says his heart is with me n will always be.he sed if u love some one let them go if they come back there always ures. i have been a cow to him since we broke up because i didnt know how to deal with it. threatening him with various things, which i regret totally.
he now says he needs to 'find out who he is', his 'heart is with me but his head isnt' and 'circumstances mean we cnt be together at mo' becaus he cant forget the bad stuff that happened at the end. some explanations please. is he needing this time to forget the bad stuff , if so do u think he ever will? or can if he LOVES ME
the whole purpose of not finding somone knew is thti love him and know it can be gd
i asked if he waNts me to move on , and he sed no he doesnt but knows he cant tell me to wait.
he says his heart is always with him but his head not with me at the moment. dont say move on bcus how can i knowin he loves me and i him. do u think love is enuf

2006-12-13 22:37:31 · 7 answers · asked by lola f 1

Not to stalk him or anything...just been curious about how he turned out lol...

2006-12-13 22:34:13 · 13 answers · asked by lapoetsmoderator 1

and now my beard is really itchy.

Should i shave it off??

2006-12-13 22:32:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should i teach him the game dot to dot i wouldn't use a perminent marker???

2006-12-13 22:18:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not 1 of them as she has always only had 3 favourites and she says so too.

Should i go into her house on Christmas Eve when my parents are asleep and switch the oven off so their turkey won't get cooked????

2006-12-13 22:06:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy has been chasing me for years.even when i was in a serious relationship with my ex.

i ended my relationship with my ex 8 months ago.i was with him for 6 years,engaged and we had our own place.my ex has moved away.

i have met up with this guy a few times.he is still chasing me.we have only kissed despite him wanting to take things further sexually.i have stayed at his place a few times.i have been abit of a tease!lol

when i was with him last he asked about my ex.he knew him but they wasnt friends.

after we meet,i dont hear from him for a while.i end up chasing him then i eventually give up cause i dont hear from him.then,he comes back and the whole chase things starts again!

whats going on???
i really really like him.

he says he likes me too and is always complimenting me.he makes me feel really special.he always wants to be with me when we are together




he knows i ended my past relationship but doesnt know why.

2006-12-13 21:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was adopted in 1985 in California through the department of social and health services in Ranch Cucamoga California located in San Bernardino County. I think I have my real mother's name and also my real grandmother's name. Where would i start looking to find if they are still alive and where they are located at? there phone number and name is not listed. any good websites? how do i go about this? PLEASE help!!

2006-12-13 21:44:03 · 3 answers · asked by Jennifer 1

And do you know what they are getting you?

2006-12-13 21:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by cigaro19 5

had a reoccurence of depression and have also been diagnosed with anxiety so i dont know if my feelings are real or not. I am feeling like im tired of us, we have so many problems and we're just so different i feel we will break up unless he grows up. but i really want it to work so does that mean i dont want to break up? I just want these thoughts to go out of my head. We are also going overseas for 2 months in the new yr and since we booked it 6 mths ago ive been feeling like im stuck, because even though there wasnt a problem i knew i couldnt go anywhere coz were going away together. now im questioning if i ever loved him or if he just made me feel loved, as my self esteem is sooo low. how do u tell? i want us to be together can i fix this?

2006-12-13 21:20:49 · 11 answers · asked by li s 1

If someone was adopted where would they start to look and where would they look to find information on the where about's of her real mother?

2006-12-13 21:15:59 · 15 answers · asked by Jennifer 1

do you ever do a strip dance or undress real slow in front of your husbands or boyfriends

2006-12-13 20:35:04 · 20 answers · asked by ken s 6

2006-12-13 20:29:56 · 16 answers · asked by abc 3

I am in love with a semi-functioning alcoholic, he works most of the time, but he doesn't stay at jobs for more then a year or two at a time, he drinks beer constantly and admits he is an alcoholic. He doesn't really have anyone who truly cares about him but me. We have a son together, but because of his drinking, and the behavior that accompnies it infidelity, too much out in the streets, I am no longer with him. My questions are, How do I help him without being with him. (Everytime I cave and go visit him it's the same, "you don't know how much I care, I miss u so much, I can't breathe without u") He knows I am in love with him, so I personally think the things he says are cruel. But, I have unconditional love for him, and just want to help him without traumatizing my son. SUGGESTIONS?
And why doesn't he love his son enough to stop drinking?

2006-12-13 20:20:13 · 13 answers · asked by verywisefor28 2

in other words my cousin had custidy of my daughter and only told her this . never showing her the court papers. they claim to have .now she is 19 years old and is asking me if its true . should she not ask them for their papers .instead of throwing the burdon on me i will gladly show her .this was partly the cause of me & her real mom to lose her.to make them look better in her eyes .since they raised her ? are they afraid that would discredit them if they showed her the court papers .cause they know its not true .after fifteen years.she should have the right to know. right !! or wrong?

2006-12-13 20:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by dirtdevil215 3

2006-12-13 19:56:09 · 21 answers · asked by angie20k 4

Her last name in 1989 was Norman and I am curious where she is in life. A little bit of me hopes she is not married but happy.

2006-12-13 19:55:51 · 3 answers · asked by Nob ody 2

2006-12-13 19:27:58 · 16 answers · asked by graduation_girl2003 2

2006-12-13 19:17:53 · 25 answers · asked by kate 1

everybody and everything around me seems to be squashing my efforts towards progress. to make it real hard, I'm all alone. Some life advice please?

2006-12-13 19:12:31 · 17 answers · asked by anabanana 3

5 yr ago he do not stop when i walk in there

2006-12-13 18:59:23 · 9 answers · asked by verdell k 1

This was a 3 year relationship. Things were rocky at the end,he told me he had been approched at work and he felt there was some interest there and he did not want to hurt me like I was hurt before. I told him if there was interst then we did not need to be together.We both (to my surprize) decided to be friends. Right after this he slept with his ex-wife who is having a baby now.They are not together and she does not want to be with him, all she wanted was a baby. My heart is sick. I know we were not really together, but I can't turn off my feelings. We have spoken a few times and he said he knows he has lost the best woman he has ever had and dosen't want me out of his life. I am so confused, I feel I would be better off alone, than with someone that could do this to me.

2006-12-13 18:50:54 · 20 answers · asked by lost in luv 1

My girl friend has four children and she's a white liver if you know what Imean now she's with a young guy that takes her money jumps on her and she loves him he do dope now she does it she's messing up her life and her kids at times I want to call the social workers on her but I don't want to hurt the kids they love momnor do I want to get them seperated.as I am speaking her mom got the 10 yearold and one of the fathers has his two girls and she has the boy and they do him so bad it's just sad. please help!!!

2006-12-13 18:40:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and his ex just started talking again, he decided to email her since they hadn't spoke to each other in 8 months, their relationship ended on a bad note...so she cut off all contact from him and never called him again he said it was b/c he didnt treat her right and was taking her kindness for weakness, however during our relationship i found out he had been asking about her and was wondering where she was and i'm like why should he care? if their relationship wasnt all that good, he even had the nerve to add her back on his friends list lastnight...after he deleted her months ago i mean what the hell? and to put the icing on the cake he is not responding to any of my messages or phone calls, i feel like i'm losing him especially if theres no communication...so i need your thoughts on this, do you think there's a strong possibility he regrets losing her b/c he didnt treat her right the first time and is aiming for a second chance???

2006-12-13 18:40:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-13 18:38:40 · 26 answers · asked by sai 1

2006-12-13 18:28:57 · 8 answers · asked by noga 3