2006-12-13 20:29:56 · 16 answers · asked by abc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I Hate to tell you he was over you before he even left you.
You cant get over him cuz you love/like him and cant understand why this happened. There is no closer for you but there is for him.
This is only a guess since you didnt give more info in your question.
But If I were you give it time and see what happens. But dont waitaround for him like a lost puppy. You will feel pain and be upset and you wont get over it in 1 night. But in time it will be better and if he left you like that then Your better off! We all think we find the right person only to find out we wasted 5yrs of our life for some guy/girl that we wanted to be with forever. I WIsh this was easy to get over but it aint. I have been there myself and it hurts But I can say 1 thing Im HAPPY NOW Last year I sent her a card and told her
E------a
I Wanted to THANK YOU for what you did and how you left me for no reason and hurting me the way you did. But I Have never been so happy in my life And to think if I would have stayed with you where I would be But I Know I would not be as happay as I am now.
PS- That seem to get her mad.. lol
Goodluck
2006-12-13 20:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you know I have thought about this and I was heart broken many times and it seemed like the guy never got hurt but not too long ago an exboyfriend called me and confessed that after our break up it took him a long time to get over it and he CRIED. WOW so just because they don't show it on the outside oh it is bothering them on the inside. Hang in there time will heal but it still hurts especially if you hear a song or see a movie that you had together.
2006-12-13 20:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not into you.If a guy is leaving your relationship out of the blue,then he never had a deep commitment to you. If you feel horrible then you probably had sex way to soon. When people have sex it releases chemicals in the brain that induce feelings of bliss, uphoria, and excitement . For women when this happens we automatically become attached. Dopamine, norepinephrine and phenylethylamine are the chemicals that induce these feelings. Your best bet is to lick your wounds, take time to heal, then ask the universe to send you your soul mate. The right person is out there, beleive;)
2006-12-13 21:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by iamhappyfourme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know he is really over you? Never know for sure. Usually it works out that the guy has more trouble getting over the girl, because the girl slowly falls out of love with him well before the relationship is ended, where as he gets hit suddenly.
Hard one to answer.
2006-12-13 21:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by jason b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately this is easy. Your relationship was actually over long before it physically was. He didnt feel about you the way you did about him so basically it was over for him long ago thus the reason he could rebound so easily. Sorry wish I had a better answer for you but sometimes the truth hurts. Good luck
2006-12-13 21:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself if he asked to date you again...would you take him back? If so, won't he just leave again? It is not worth it. Once it is over...it is over, there is no going back.
He sounds like he wants a bimbo that he doesn't have to care about or invest any emotion into.
Chances are, he was probably afraid of letting himself feel closer to you so he ended it because it frightened him.
2006-12-13 22:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by arim_namgaj 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well to tell you guys do hide their feelings much than girls. Im telling you that he's not that over you as you think and as he shows to you. Maybe you could just tell that he gets over you now that easy because she had a gf now, but to tell you its not that easy.. yes maybe his attention just turnd out to that girl and his time thats why you cant see the loneliness inside. ofcourse he still had that feeling for you it may not be as before but he still have it just fade
2006-12-13 20:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by confused_lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had a school teacher one time tell me, you
will always meet someone, that will make you
forget about the next. Just give it time.
2006-12-13 20:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by CODY 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You loved him more than he loved you.
You'll get over him, it just takes time.
Hang in there.
2006-12-13 20:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cause u loved him and that mean u did care about the relationshp and if he got over it once day that mean he didn't care at alll about it... What a *** whole.
2006-12-13 20:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by MFC 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋