this guy has been chasing me for years.even when i was in a serious relationship with my ex.
i ended my relationship with my ex 8 months ago.i was with him for 6 years,engaged and we had our own place.my ex has moved away.
i have met up with this guy a few times.he is still chasing me.we have only kissed despite him wanting to take things further sexually.i have stayed at his place a few times.i have been abit of a tease!lol
when i was with him last he asked about my ex.he knew him but they wasnt friends.
after we meet,i dont hear from him for a while.i end up chasing him then i eventually give up cause i dont hear from him.then,he comes back and the whole chase things starts again!
whats going on???
i really really like him.
he says he likes me too and is always complimenting me.he makes me feel really special.he always wants to be with me when we are together
he knows i ended my past relationship but doesnt know why.
2006-12-13 21:53:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously, he is interested in you, however, he is not going to continue to chase you the rest of your life. You need to figure out what you what and stop being a tease that is so childish. God bless****
2006-12-13 21:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this chasing thing is a drag...it usually is like this: when he chases u and can`t have u, u r interesting 2 him, but when u start chasing him, he can have u whenever he wants, so it`s no fun anymore! talk 2 him, make sure this whole thing wasn't just for the fun of the game...if he really likes u 2, u should give it a shot...but....are u sure it`s not just that u got so used 2 having somebody, that now, that u don`t, it doesn't really matter who it is, u just need to find a guy? are u totally over your ex? does he think u are totally over your ex or does he think u still have a thing 4 him? end the games, be straight forward, talk 2 him, find out what he want and....well go 4 it!
2006-12-14 06:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by dNbBabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's going on is a failure to adequately communicate. STOP and see this fellow for what he is...if he isn't right for you, tell him and keep looking elsewhere. Stop the game playing and teasing---have a talk and make your intentions clear.He may be the right guy or maybe not---either you want to find out or you don't. Are you ready for another committed relationship? Take a break---cool off. You probably need something to pass the time and clear your mind. The decision is yours and so is the solution..get a grip and grab the reality of the situation.
erry xmas
2006-12-14 06:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop shying away and get things out in the clear and sort yourselves out, it seems like you both like each other and love comes with that. So move on to the next level. You willn't be chasing one another all the time. Good luck.
2006-12-14 06:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by simple me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you and you really like him why havent you gotten together?
Maybe he needed a break from the chase.
2006-12-14 05:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because there are too many games going on - you admit that you teased him. why not just be straight with him? talk to him and tell him whats going on in your head and what you want. then allow him to respond. at least then you'll know what's going on. maybe he's just confused . . .
2006-12-14 06:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're being manipulated. And I think it's working because you like the fact that he likes you far more than you actually like him, as he keeps you guessing. He's good.
2006-12-14 08:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he justs wants to play games with you. Wants to have the feel good factor whilst you chase him and just wants to shag you.
2006-12-14 08:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or maybe he does know the reason why, and thats why hes being careful - you don't mention why you split up
2006-12-14 08:17:42 · answer #9 · answered by b7jac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him
2006-12-14 05:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by glover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋