we were going out for about 9 months he lived with me and my kids for a month of that time. we all got along great. i helped him step back into school and now he lives some where else and we broke up because he would never come home and his room mate thinks i am not good enough for him what do i do i am so in lov
2006-12-13 22:39:59 · 10 answers · asked by AMY W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok reading what you wrote it doesn't seem like he's feeling the same. Are you leaving out some information? You talk about how you've helped him. Ok what did he do for you? He never came home? He wasn't coming home why? Did you ask? Have you asked this man how he feels about you? It sounds like he was just using you to get what he wanted and needed at the time. Now that he's gotten it you're of no use to him any longer. Now my concern is why is his room mate all up in your business? How does the room mate know anything about you to make the determination that you're not good enough for him? It sounds to me like you need to cut him losses and find you someone that is willing to do for you as much as you're willing to do for him.You've obviously dated before so I'm sure this isn't the first time you've felt that you're in love. Stop being used and mentally abused and find yourself someone that right and good for you and your kids. You nor this guy is setting a good example for your kids.
2006-12-13 23:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In love with what? nine months and this has already happen. Kids? plural, More than one, Big responsibility For a young boy. back to school. Wow Drop it mate, you haven't got time to waste dwelling on it. move on, go back to paying attention to your children. Stop looking and it comes , if it hasn't be front of you all the time.
2006-12-14 06:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by reevesie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the age is not the factor here folks, he is as mature as she, boys are always a bit behind.
it just sounds like he used you and your kids (unfortunately) to get to where he wanted to be all along.
I say over means over, let him go and learn the lesson not to subject your kids to someone that they will like only to have him leave and before you introduce them to a man again, make sure he is just that...a man that is going to love you as much as you love him.
don't allow yourself to be used like a carpet for some degenerate boy to wipe his feet on. You have kids...make them your priority. And who cared about his roommates, they were probably all in the "know" about his intentions.
The nice gal almost always finishes last.
2006-12-14 06:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by arim_namgaj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a high school kid so it's not your maturity level. So what could it be.... Hmmmm... Get rid of your insecurities and you might be more attractive to them college kids. Good luck
2006-12-14 06:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you mess with someone that much younger they may seem to be on your level but remember how you were at that age. they may be grown but there mind is not mature enough.
2006-12-14 06:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you,he will really do anything for you,and let this relation goes on,but i guess he doesnt love you as you do,i see you leave him,i know you wont choose my answer,its hard for you to accept!,anyway deep from my heart i wish you best wishes :-)
2006-12-14 07:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by nonstoppassion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need him for security sake?he is in school for GOD'S sake.
2006-12-14 06:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r desperate because ur old
2006-12-14 06:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you can't let go.HAVE FAITH AND JUST LET GO.
2006-12-14 06:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by iroc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him back
2006-12-14 06:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋