I am not 1 of them as she has always only had 3 favourites and she says so too.
Should i go into her house on Christmas Eve when my parents are asleep and switch the oven off so their turkey won't get cooked????
2006-12-13 22:06:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For the bloke who said buy her a bottle of wine she is an alcoholic and so is my dad they were violent drunks when i was a kid 3 of us were taken in care .
They are still nasty drunks and i would not take my kids there even if i was invited
2006-12-13 22:16:08 · update #1
Leave them to it babe....you are happy with your lovely wife and children ...just celebrate the fact you grew up to be a well balanced individual who cares about what really matters....love ya...xx
2006-12-14 00:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a Christmas dinner of your own with the other two siblings and don't worry about what the others do. I would also start inviting the other 'outcast' ones over for any holiday and birthdays and cut the 'favorites and mom' out of your end of the family.
Make a big deal out of your get togethers and let the others suffer.
On the rare occasions that you should see the others, I'd tell them what a wonderful time you and your end of the family had at your get together and let them stew in their own juices for awhile.
I'd also tell my story and not give them the chance to tell theirs. When I was done with my story I'd tell them 'Sorry, got to run, now, have a good day.' And I'd walk away.
2006-12-13 22:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't do that. It makes you the lesser person. I would go over to her house with some thoughtful trinket and be personable and charming. Then ask her what her plans for Christmas are, all the while acting your part with class. If you have a good wit then throw in some semi-insults. All with a smile on your face. Then pleasantly say goodbye to her knowing that you've just used your intelligence to insult her. As she drags her carcass back in her home she will feel the heat. Good Luck!
2006-12-13 22:22:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, parents don't always behave wisely when it comes to their children. Yet it would be ill advised to take retribution against her turkey. Remember dear this is the season of Peace and Love. Don't give into hatred and spite, not now. Go about your own life creating your own traditions and special memories with the people who do want to share the holiday's with you. No matter who the individual is, life is too short to convince them of things that we can not change. Concentrate on the positive things this wonderful holiday brings. Stop wasting time wondering why mom can be heartless to you and the rest of the uninvited. Life is short yet it is the longest thing we ever do, so do it with love and compassion.
2006-12-13 22:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sassymama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. And just for thinking of this, I bet I know why you're not on her list! Mom's not playing favorites, she's playing host to people that are respectful to her.
Since you're not invited and feel left out, send a nice bottle of wine or food to your mum ahead of time and wish her a Merry Christmas.
If you do get invited, then behave yourself at her house! You may even get invited for Easter dinner!
2006-12-13 22:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by PugDaddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh i be attentive to that ok. My mom each 365 days hosts Thanksgiving for her childrens and their families. My mom has childrens who're all married and there is 5 grandchildren of countless a while. My mom frequently in basic terms plans for her childrens, their childrens & spouses to cook dinner for as a result she has sufficient foodstuff and countless issues to come to a decision from according to selection or nutritional desires (diabetes particularly). My sister-in-regulation has the tendency to ask her relatives to it besides, that's her dad, and 2 her brothers, then her brothers even tend to ask whomever they are dating (style of the month style element) who would or won't have infants. With that, my mom has taken up asking my SIL if her relatives is coming now. She's the style that does no longer say no to stay away from the conflict of my SIL throwing a tantrum then my brother and his finished relatives are no longer coming. mutually as we would desire to stay without my SIL coming, we % to have my brother & his childrens. regrettably, you could no longer end impolite so which you be attentive to they'll attempt to take throughout returned. artwork with them and are available to a decision among one yet another who will cook dinner what....
2016-12-11 08:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by anirudh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...go out with the other two siblings find a bunch of pals who'd really love to spend their christmas with you and ...forget bout the other 'family' and the revenge- instead send 'em a beautiful snap of u all and happy pals having an awesome time...and say that it was an absolutely perfect christmas after years!!! Merry Christmas!!!
2006-12-13 22:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed away from my abusive parents for 15 years. I showed up for my dads funeral, and now I visit my mom in a nursing home, but she's still abusive.
2006-12-13 22:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.. but dont turn the oven off.. just replace the turkey with a rooster
2006-12-13 23:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope this is one of your "tongue in cheek" questions. If not your mom sounds more like Londonsnumberonebastrd.
2006-12-13 22:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by Get Real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋