my boyfriend and his ex just started talking again, he decided to email her since they hadn't spoke to each other in 8 months, their relationship ended on a bad note...so she cut off all contact from him and never called him again he said it was b/c he didnt treat her right and was taking her kindness for weakness, however during our relationship i found out he had been asking about her and was wondering where she was and i'm like why should he care? if their relationship wasnt all that good, he even had the nerve to add her back on his friends list lastnight...after he deleted her months ago i mean what the hell? and to put the icing on the cake he is not responding to any of my messages or phone calls, i feel like i'm losing him especially if theres no communication...so i need your thoughts on this, do you think there's a strong possibility he regrets losing her b/c he didnt treat her right the first time and is aiming for a second chance???
2006-12-13 18:40:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
*** he's definately got unfinished business w/ her and i'd say ya, he is looking to go back to her. i wouldn't stick around. do u want him back only cause she says NO? u don't need that.
2006-12-13 19:00:39 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say, it doesn't sound good for you and him. it sounds like he's probably getting back with her and just trying to avoid having to tell you what's happening.
I know it's hard, and you're hurting, but stop trying to contact him. no phone calls or e-mails, and just see how long it takes him to get in contact with you.
you don't owe him anything, so don't sit around waiting for him. go ahead and get out and try to start enjoying yourself again. the sooner you can get over this jerk the better off you'll be.
I'm truly sorry for the hurt he's caused you.
I wish you the very best.
2006-12-14 03:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't returning your calls, and is reconnecting with her, it sounds like he never got her out of his system. There is really nothing you can do except wait it out and see if he turns around. Or, find another boyfriend (sorry). The best you can do is be really affectionate with him if he gives you the opportunity. Give him kisses, make him dinner, whatever. But if you don't get the chance, you probably have to let him go.
2006-12-14 02:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This site http://getyourexback.toptips.org teaches how to use tiny little text messages to create a whole new relationship with your ex (no matter how bad things were before)
2014-09-24 14:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better forget about him, he's going to hurt you.
Move on.
2006-12-14 04:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋