a friend in need how do I help?

Question

My girl friend has four children and she's a white liver if you know what Imean now she's with a young guy that takes her money jumps on her and she loves him he do dope now she does it she's messing up her life and her kids at times I want to call the social workers on her but I don't want to hurt the kids they love momnor do I want to get them seperated.as I am speaking her mom got the 10 yearold and one of the fathers has his two girls and she has the boy and they do him so bad it's just sad. please help!!!

Answer 1

sweetie, you probably feel like you're stuck between a rock and a hard place, but do the right thing for the sake of those children, and call the police or social services. those kids do not need to suffer because of her senseless mistakes. I know that you're feeling bad, but don't. just think of how bad you'd feel if something bad happened to one of those children. your friend is responsible for herself and her own mess, but the kids deserve a safe place to live, food to eat, plenty of love, and a proper education, and a stable place to come home to.
you should be proud of yourself for caring so much. and your friend may not realize it now, but she will thank you later for what you're doing for her kids now.
Good Luck with everything

Answer 2

My dear,
I know that the pain of addiction is an enormous one. There is one thing that you can do for your friend in this type of situation. And that is PRAY for her. Do that and be patient. You see this problem can only be solved by her and GOD. She must want to change and nobody can help her unless she wants to regardless of whatever you do. This may not seem to be the best answer to you but, it's the only answer.

Answer 3

Tell her about a drug-treatment center.
If she wants help she'll go.
Can't help someone that doesn't want to be helped, it's their choice.
I'm sorry for the kids.
Tell her the way you feel, Good~Luck.