Other - Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

ok i recently got engaged to a 25 year old and my parents know about being engaged but not about his age. they think he's 19 and ill be 18 in 7 months. should i tell them now or after i turn 18 so that they cant brake us apart because ill be 18. i belive that love doesnt have a price tag or an age limit so it doesnt matter to me. but when we get married they'll end up finding out his age. also my mother and i were talking and i asked what she would do if i wanted to date someone who was in their 20's and she said it depends on what the age is and i said between like 20 and 26 and she said no as long as i knew what would happen if we had sex (because he could go to jail for segetory rape or something like that) anyways what im asking is: 1.Do you guys belive that age is nothing but a number and 2.Should i tell her now or after i turn 18 so that she cant tear us apart,because we plan on living together and having kids <<<(after we get married of course)

2006-12-17 07:04:24 · 16 answers · asked by kendi kenders 1

2006-12-17 07:02:04 · 9 answers · asked by swimlikebrownies 1

i posted a question, about a little girl i was concerned about, walking home from school alone, down dark country lanes, a long way to go, and made vulnerable. I have been taking her home in my car, she is my little girls best friend, and basically, i was worried about her, and she told me she is scared, walking alone, of someone grabbing her. I posted this, and was advised, as i wanted, but was a bit worried, to report to the school, about this girl being left to walk alone, in the dark, places, i would not even go, as a grown woman. I did this, was promised, annonymity, by the school, but they promised they would have to sort this out. On Friday, her father asked to speak to me, my heart sank, but he asked if i would take her to my house for 2 hours, until he was done with business, then he would collect her. I obliged, no problem, but now wonder, if the school have had a discreet word, and i should be so pleased i brought this up. And they kept me annonymous, should i stop worrying?

2006-12-17 07:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can parents still maintain satisfactory relations when they have the pressure of kids? Is your quality of life affected? If you had your time again would you have 'em or not?

2006-12-17 06:58:41 · 18 answers · asked by Peace 2

ok i know i love my bf but i fell as if i don't really like him. i would do any thing for this man but he don't want to do the same for me so after time i lost respect for him now all i want to do is treat him like he treats me i resent him for the way i feel. we don't have sex till he wants it even if i try to start it he tells me i am not in the mood but when he wants it he gets it now we had sex 2times last month an i 'm not shore how to take this its been goin on for the last year. also he wont let me have any control over the money. i work 55h a week an i cant even go out or ask for money. if i do he tells me no or ask me 50questions about how i will spend the money . i have kids an i dont want them not to have him around they have lost enough . so please help me what should i do

2006-12-17 06:51:05 · 15 answers · asked by Storm 2

2006-12-17 06:38:12 · 20 answers · asked by gtiley 1

2006-12-17 06:14:54 · 13 answers · asked by straws 1

my gf and i have been together 4 about 7 months and about 3 years prior to us getting together she told me she was into me and i brushed her off cuz i wuz an immature skank. she got a bf like 6 months after this and they had sex like 6 months after that and then he broke up with her a week later.she went through a slight depression and had pretty low self esteem untill we got together. i cant help thinkin that if i would've given her the time of day then she wouldnt have lost her vigrinity 2 a total ******** and she wouldnt have had to go through everything she went through. should i be blaming myself 4 this

2006-12-17 06:02:15 · 7 answers · asked by nickizzle4rizzle 2

2006-12-17 06:00:19 · 23 answers · asked by seriousekid 1

i had many sexual partners in the past and i settled down with someone and had a child. i kicked him to the curb because he was really bad to me and now i am with a different guy. i told him i wanted to wait to have sex till i was married. is that a rediculous request now? i just don't feel that i should anymore till i am married. what would your reaction be? why?

2006-12-17 05:59:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 05:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by sagatela 2

hey ..i`m dany 16,and really don`t know what to do..it`s about a girl..
she`s 16 too,same town,and go on dance classes 2times /week..it all began 1 years and something ago..went to a movie..nothing special..chatt`ed on ymess frequently..and i got really deep feelings for her..
she impressed me the most with her naturallness being..always sincer,friendly,sweet,cute,verry warm inside person,that does not chose to show herself as being sexy or something..that show`s her inside person..even she is the most beautifull girl i`ved ever seen.i would give it all to her. i`ved tryed to get a closer relationship with her..but she has really greater options(i think) we discussed about her current boyf that is 20-22 i don`t know 4 sure..and they care one for each other..she made me cry,laugh,smile,sad,suffer(not intentionatlly),sweat,tremble..i feel alive around her..but i don`t think she feel the same..we current friends,really complicated, anybody want to help danytherestless@yahoo

2006-12-17 05:09:41 · 4 answers · asked by restlessguy 1

Ok ladie's is your local UPS or FED X driver a "HOTTIE or a NOTTIE".....mine isnt a hottie his a real nottie (in his early 60's)
and by far doesnt have it going on.....So are you one of the lucky one's that get's EYE CANDY along with your parcel?

2006-12-17 05:08:01 · 4 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6

I have bought a card for my partner from our son for christmas with "happy christmas daddy" on it. Should i expect one from the baby? Does your partner do this or am i expecting too much from my man?

2006-12-17 05:07:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Honest opinions please and reasons if you like

2006-12-17 05:05:56 · 18 answers · asked by C 3

Like during the summer i go to visit my dad up in illinois but then i have a boyfriend here in texas..........could i possibly date both at the same time?

2006-12-17 04:57:03 · 21 answers · asked by catexasgurl933 1

I think they set a fine example to the human race.

My man servant Abdul is getting on a bit and if I adopt a small black/asian child now Abdul could have him fully trained in say 5 years time and that would leave me with a fresh young worker willing to work from dusk till dawn for tuppence a hour.

Now what should I name this forecoming child?

Benson perhaps?

2006-12-17 04:55:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

to turn the outside light on as it is dark???



I'm only thinking she might cut her toes off!!

2006-12-17 04:49:04 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

must warn you i eat loads tell jokes and wear the hat out of the cracker i also like a few beers.


I would wash up tho.

2006-12-17 04:47:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I had Fancy's 3 years a go.... we used to be in love for same reasons. we get in fight and he just lift .. I didn't herd nothing from that time.. anyhow I meet him somewhere in the mall... I didn't not believe my self ..he ask me for my #.. a week th next day he calls me.. he asked to see me..I said okay then we went out..to a nice restaurant... I asked he why did u go" hes said I don't know I wasn't ready to be a husband that time..I said.. so now u think u r.. he said yeah. I Said its too late"" he was like WHY ARE U MARRIED NOW'' I said No... but I'm not the same person u know'' he said whatever u r I still love u... I never forget about u.. I want to tell u that I was sorry ... IAm want to apologize to u and to Ur family... maby we meet again because we meant to be together.... we lift from the restaurant...I was parked my car too far .. so ask to drive me to my car... I get to his car... he was looking at me.. he said u look beautiful.... I said thank u... he touch my hair and kissed me... GOD I felt like IAM back with him ... I get lost in one minutes... then I asked him why did u do that he said ... I don't know ... ma by be because I loved u..... I said its never ganna be the same.. he said... we will see...anyways I told my mom that I meet him and staff...she was so happy... the problem is ... I tough I get over him,,, but it seems like I still love him... he was my first love... I m seeing someone now.. but I don't fell the something ......my family loves my ex.... and my mom encourage me to get back with him.....by the way IAM 21 now and his 25...he look more mature and batter job and nice car.... but I fell like my hear and my bady want him back... but I don't know what to do...

2006-12-17 04:39:45 · 7 answers · asked by heregoagain_1 1

Because i know some married men buy some right slappers drinks when they come in the pub skint..


I am willing to wear shorts to show off my legs and wear cheap aftershave and a tight tshirt to show off my man boobs..

2006-12-17 04:39:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 04:30:22 · 3 answers · asked by unknown u 3

they told me to use only the microwave not the stove. I used the stove to make french fries and had a small grease fire. I burnt the frying pan, melted a few ceiling tiles, and scalded the cats hair off. What should I do? Will my parents notice? Should I run?

2006-12-17 04:21:41 · 30 answers · asked by Buddy Love 2

I just want to know if that means anything bad. or if i'm crazy.

2006-12-17 04:08:35 · 12 answers · asked by dauschaundlovers 2

to teach me how to do it.????

I have also heard that you should do it naked as to not get the things you cleaned dirty again so the lady would have to be naked .
Any body shape will do as long as the lady is over 30 women with curves are so much better (at housework) i am told.


If this is the wrong information i have been given i apolagise in advance..

2006-12-17 04:02:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

When i was with my boyfriend (3 years together),he had money problems so i gave him my guitare to sell..I wanted to help him,that was over a year ago,but now we arent together anymore..I dont care for the guitare,coz when he sold it,i was totally convinced that i wanted to help someone i love!But the problem is that i didnt tell my parents,so each time i watch TV with them and someone with a guitare appears i change to an other channel!
I'm always afraid about their question "where's your guitar"?
Actually they have never asked about it since over a year!But i'm always afraid if they'll do so!If they'll ask what will i do?
I'm living in tunisia,so the mentality is not the same as other countries!Help plz

2006-12-17 03:51:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-17 03:48:31 · 2 answers · asked by Fabiokrc 1

how can I get her back, sometime she become happy for seeing me sometimes she don't, she makes me loose my concentration while thinking about her.

2006-12-17 03:48:12 · 5 answers · asked by mister Q 1

I keep trying to forget her but i cant . i dont love her anymore

2006-12-17 03:45:27 · 8 answers · asked by bob a builder 2

2006-12-17 03:43:02 · 8 answers · asked by Jimmy T 1