i posted a question, about a little girl i was concerned about, walking home from school alone, down dark country lanes, a long way to go, and made vulnerable. I have been taking her home in my car, she is my little girls best friend, and basically, i was worried about her, and she told me she is scared, walking alone, of someone grabbing her. I posted this, and was advised, as i wanted, but was a bit worried, to report to the school, about this girl being left to walk alone, in the dark, places, i would not even go, as a grown woman. I did this, was promised, annonymity, by the school, but they promised they would have to sort this out. On Friday, her father asked to speak to me, my heart sank, but he asked if i would take her to my house for 2 hours, until he was done with business, then he would collect her. I obliged, no problem, but now wonder, if the school have had a discreet word, and i should be so pleased i brought this up. And they kept me annonymous, should i stop worrying?
2006-12-17 07:00:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You have no reason to worry. Besides, even if this came out, the bottom line is that you only had and have the kid's best interest at heart, so thats a good thing, not bad, and any good parent would be grateful if things were brought to their attention. Perhaps a bit pissed off as it is basically implied that her parents are not as attentive as they should be, but they'd get over it. I wish there were more concerned people like yourself, perhaps our society wouldn't be as 'loose' as it is.
2006-12-17 07:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it´s nice of you to post again to tell us what happened, You did the right thing , I would have done the same. You are a kind person , & sure the father must know you don´t mind having his child in your house. Just one thing I would like to say , try not to make a habit of looking after her all the time, They, the parent´s have a duty & they should be more resposible for there own child. I´ts always nice to help out now & then, but there are limit´s to what we should & should´t do . you have no reson to worry. Merry Christmas
2006-12-17 15:15:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you're saying at the end. But I DO believe you should have remained annonymous. Father making secure arrangements for his child is indeed a good thing you provoked.
However, not YOUR responsibility.
2006-12-17 15:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes cause you now know that the little girl is sate in your house instead of walking some where so dangerous alone
2006-12-17 15:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by laurenj677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great job!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why are you worried?
You did the right the right thing.
The father came to you because he know that your daughter and his were friends.
You have a safe little girl
and a playmate
2006-12-17 15:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by trawet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relieved - i before e except after c when it makes the sound eeeee (sorry, I used to be an English teacher)
2006-12-17 15:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes quit worrying.
YOU ARE AN AWESOME HUMAN BEING
WOW
2006-12-17 15:03:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying you did the right thing. good for you.
2006-12-18 12:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by tjtwix1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying,, I wish there were more people like you that do care. Keep up the GREAT KINDNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-17 15:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by mark j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eeeeeeeeeeeek!!!! grrr
2006-12-17 15:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋