How do you know if your partner is cheating on you? Please give me a lot of ideas.?

Answer 1

do they go out of the room to answer the fone? or ignor certain fone calls? do they not answer your fone call at certin times? do they act more distant? have you answered his fone and people have hung up? does he break plans or lie to you alot? do they hide what they doing say theyre gonna be at home but theyre not there?
keep an eye on their monies (i.e. check stubs, bank account balances, credit card bills, etc...) would tell you whether their spending more money than usual.

Cheaters will be more attentive to their person make them self up more showers cologne purfume make up shaving

* Physical signs to look for to determine whether or not someone is having an affair is lipstick on the collar, odors of cologne/perfume on a shirt/blouse, checking underwear for secretion stains. check their wallets and/or the glove compartments of their car to see if they left receipts, pieces of paper with phone numbers, addresses, condoms, etc.
keep track of the mileage on their car. claims to be working late, check paycheck stubs to verify this overtime.

Signs of a Cheating Wife
1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy. 2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn't tell you about it.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
4) She buys herself new underwear.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down.
7) She's unconventionally spending money on new clothes.
8) She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring.


Signs of a Cheating Husband
1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's home.
8) His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse
1) He/She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
2) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
3) He/She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
4) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
5) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
6) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
7) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
8) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
9) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
10) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
11) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
12) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
13) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

Answer 2

I don't agree with a lot of the stuff that zumy said.... but I do agree with what someone else said (can't remember the name). You should just ask. Really.... it's better to ask, then to sneak around behind someone's back, rumaging through their personal things. And even when people are together, they need personal space. And it's fine if each person has separate interests too.

A couple of the things that zumy said I especially do not agree with. Such as a husband suddenly wanting to try new sex techniques. That could actually be him trying to make things better with you so that he doesn't feel the desire to cheat. Most men will try to make things better with their woman first before they cheat. Some just don't know how to express themselves properly. If they don't try to make things better or let you know their need, then they might be trying to break off the relationship.

Or a woman buying herself new underwear. That's just rediculous. Sometimes a girl likes to buy herself new underwear because it feels good to. I'm happily married and I go out and buy a new thong every so often. So what?

In conclusion... just ask the guy.

Answer 3

Just ask the guy? If he does plan to cheat you, im sure he had thot of the 'escape routes' as well if ever cornered with such questions.
You may practise all the ideas given to you by others who answers your question. But emotion does take over your sense of rational when you find out/or not anything suspicious about him. Get an advice frm a close friend about what to do. Sometimes we need a 3rd party view in order for us to make the next move after finding out that we've been cheated.

Answer 4

comes home late with bad excuse or out of the usual things that they had to do. loss of sexual desire. Watch for new things in bed and behavior of them while there going on. make note of when they get especially cleaned up and uf there late getting home or where ever on those days

Answer 5

They want there own space, own time, have interests outside of the relationship, these are all possibilities. They are secretive about what they do, you don't meet their new friends. They loose interest in sex, kissing, hugging etc

Answer 6

ask them if they are cheating on you! look at their body language if they smile of wont look you in the eye its a pretty good sign and also if they get angry that seems to be a clue.

Answer 7

they stay out later...forget to call, say they are working late..they change their appearance...more makeup if they're a chick....go to the gym if they are a couch potato...lots of new friends...they hide phone calls etc.

Answer 8

If you think it and feel it in your heart....then you already know. You dont have to be hit with a sledge hammer.

Answer 9

You will have this gut feeling. Their routine changes. Attention to you is less. Sex is less. You will know.

Answer 10

You need ideas? for what; to frame him on? To challenge him on?
I think you'll know if he's cheating.
Ask him.