How do you make out I have never done it before and tomorrow my boyfriend and I are going on a date and coming back to my house. What if he wants to make out?? HOW?????
2006-12-17 18:45:24 · 13 answers · asked by Bordering Suicide 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There is nothing to worry about! Chances are, if your boyfriend has done it before, he will be the one to take the lead. And even if he doesn't have much experience, the guy is usually the one who ends up having to make all the moves anyway.
Basically, you will need to be in a comfortable position, such as on a sofa or on a bed. I would work up to it with some hand-holding and general body contact first. Then, when one of you is brave enough to go in for the actual kiss, your lips will know what to do. Remember... this is supposed to be FUN so do what feels best for you!
At this point, once you relax, you can feel free to use your hands... they are there for a reason.
NOTE: If your boyfriend does ANYTHING that makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to tell him to stop doing it right away in an assertive manner. Similarly, if he says he's not comfortable with something, then you should respect that.
If it goes bad, don't worry! You'll do better the next time.
Have fun :)
2006-12-17 18:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18... I had my first kiss last year and only avoided kissing for most of my teen years because I was freaked out by no experience... Well I then realised that it all comes so naturally that you'll think it's a second nature... Or maybe it is....
Well all you need to do is relax and like all other (normal) dances your male interest will definately lead you in the right direction... If there is affection u'll definately enjoy it...
It's awkward at first but u'll laugh about it later...
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2006-12-18 03:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia-Joan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh well there goes your answer, you've never made out so how do u really know that you can't? just go with flow when it happens and if he knows that you've never made out before he won't expect you to be a pro btu basically the best i can tell you to do right now is to try the back of your hand, plant soft gentle kisses on his lips an you'll get the gist
2006-12-18 02:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by REALITY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down. I'm sure he's not that great at it either. Practice makes perfect, so you might screw up in the beginging a little but trust me no guy really cares. He'll be happy just to be kissing you. So feel it out and you'll get the hang of it. Don't stress out so much. Enjoy
2006-12-18 02:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by HOVO 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when you kiss him, let him lead and you just follow the motions that he does with his lips and tounge. its like dancing it seems hard, but when you partner knows how to do it just do what they do just go with the flow. and if he says somehing mean (which he wont) then tell him the only reason you were a bad kisser is cause he doesnt have what it takes to get you in the mood ;)
2006-12-18 02:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not think and worry about the time yet to come , just do enjoy lots of hugging / kissing & caressing , rest leave it to the time .
2006-12-18 02:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what feels natural and comfortable for you. Whatever you do just make sure your shave and that your breath is fresh.
2006-12-18 02:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jem 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go w/ it. like follow what hes doing.. 1st kisses r always tough.. but u can get through it
2006-12-18 02:48:02 · answer #8 · answered by latinababe0105@sbcglobal.net 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just let him do whatever he wants to do to you.
If that's not an option, then don't be in the house alone with him.
2006-12-18 02:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Don't worry he'll show you:)
2006-12-18 02:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by ☆christina☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋