i met two guys on the internet i mean i know them from my friends but one is in uk and one is in china and they are both goodlookin they claim they wanna be with me both want to come and visit they both know each other but dont know that i talk to the other,i like both i dont know who to pick the uk one is stylish but my friends claim his not worht it but i like him a little bit more the other one was married but divorced and he calls me everyday sounds serious but i dont trust them coz their both players.help me please
2006-12-17 19:33:32 · 5 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 22 in the altanta ive recently been talkin to two guys that i know but one is in uk and one in china they both claim to like me and they want ot have a relationship only problem one is a known player he claims his chilled out and the other serious but is separated i like them both who should i pick or by the way they know each other but to my knowledge they dont know that i talk to either one of them
2006-12-17 20:17:17 · update #1
Atlanta is a BIG AREA! I would not try to PLAY with a PLAYER! Find a single, un married, unattached man that has a good job and a great attitude. Make sure that he is a local and you can see him on a regular basis. These two guys sound like they have too much time to be worth yours. You could visit a local church and begin looking there. I think that you sound like a great person that does not deserve to be hurt! Have a great holiday season with friends and family. Make sure that you get their opinion on whoever you are with. They should be honest about what they see in him without any bias. His "LOOKS" are not as important as his actions!
Eds
2006-12-18 01:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that you are too eager to make a decision now. Let the relationship settle down coz as time goes by you will know which guy love you more and can provide you with the security and care for the family. He is the guy you should choose
2006-12-17 21:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you have to meet them first before you make the decision. As soon as you meet both of them in a different timing (days or months) , see for yourself which one do you preferred or fall for. This is a fair way to both of them, agree ?
2006-12-17 21:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, wheres the question here?? I say dump them both and move on to something new.why get involved with players? Find someone deserving of your time, energy and love Before you give it.
2006-12-17 19:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you ? they could be crazies and you could get loured in and get hurt realy badly or worse , and if you do meet up with either one do not go alone
2006-12-17 19:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by delana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋