I've been dating this guy for over two years and yes we've had a lot of problems mainly from him. So much so I'm turned off sexually and now only see him as a friend. We do a lot together but for me it's not working. How do I break it off with him and explain how unhappy I am without crushing him?
2006-12-20 03:55:18 · 7 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He has baby mama drama every single week and his son is so different from my child that it's difficult to enjoy our family time together.
2006-12-20 06:52:28 · update #1
He has other personal legal troubles that I have helped him with....Plus he doesn't like my daughters father or think we should even be friends...nor should I have any real friends...
2006-12-20 06:55:07 · update #2
well honestly when a girl gets bored with the sex then its time to let it go because that is usually the thing that holds it together. my advice is that you should just be honest and tell your mate the truth before it gets out of hand and 2 yrs turn into 4 and so on and so forth. i believe since ya'll been going out for so long ya'll should at least have a connection of honesty. i think honesty is the key in this relationship
2006-12-20 04:01:15 · answer #1 · answered by sas_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were trying to fix the relationship, a litany of reasons that you're unhappy would be called for.
If you're trying to END the relationship, there's no need to give him that unless he asks for it. Just tell him you think it would be best if you stopped seeing each other, that you've been unhappy for awhile now and that you don't think it will change.
If he insists on more, then give him more. Venting wholesale and then leaving him dumped AND with your ire is a little much.
2006-12-20 12:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't break it off without crushing him, you were together for 2 years. and if you don't think you love him anymore then it's going to hurt him worse when he finds out that you stayed in the relationship while you had no feelings for him. just tell him what you said to us, but you have to realize that he is going to hurt, and it's going to hurt for a long time. so don't plan on talking to him for a while.
2006-12-20 11:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest with him and let him know that you aren't happy in the relationship and maybe you guys need to see other people. Most importantly i think you should be honest with him. No matter what you tell him or how you tell you i think your going to crush his heart.Good luck!
2006-12-20 11:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by ZaNy_kiDd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactly that!
The worst possible result is that he’ll be crushed. But you cannot spare him this disappointment. I think it is still better than going on pretending!
Take a heart and tell him. Maybe it is helpful for you if you first write down your feelings.
2006-12-20 11:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by saehli 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jsut say its over and then explain what he's doing to u.
2006-12-20 11:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by jelly ♥s him 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't ... just dump him ... there's no easy way ... :(
2006-12-20 11:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Snele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋