2006-12-20 08:49:41 · 35 answers · asked by ross c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds very trite, but time is the best thing for helping painful events to become history. Keep busy, catch up with your friends, and find interesting and new things to occupy your time. Take a while to mourn the passing of a relationship and then you have to move on. It's not easy at first, but it does get easier in time.
2006-12-20 08:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by rileysmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. She's been a part of your life.
But there is something practical you can do that will break you out of this. It's a Scientology thing, but doesn't need "faith" or "belief" to make it work. Won't do any harm to try, will it?
Get some paper and a pen.
Write this question at the top of the first sheet "Look around here and find something that doesn't remind you of (insert g/f's name here)."
Then read the question to yourself and do it. Look around and find something that doesn't remind you of her.
This will most likely be very very hard to start with (or, it might be easy to start with and then get hard, it'll get easier anyway).
When you find something, write down what it is.
Then do it again, and again, and keep doing it. This may take a while, and you might go through lots of different emotional stages. Keep going. You can take breaks (life happens), maybe do an hour per day, whatever.
You will know when you've finished because your viewpoint will change, you might realise something, and you won't feel the same way about her.
Steve
2006-12-23 06:47:53 · answer #2 · answered by replybysteve 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very open question... But assuming you are talking about an ex-partner.
You can never forget. She is part of your life so it is wrong to forget.
You need to move on. Life is too short to worry about the past
Enjoy your freedom. Re-establish yourself and perhaps get some fresh!
2006-12-20 08:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by interested_party 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no good way! You could go and find someone else but if you are stuck on this one that won't matter and you could end up hurting someone else that did not need to be. You could go and hook up with someone for sex sure! I mean it might help you get off but it could also make you feel worse. I would say just try to move on and live your life day by day and each day you wake up try to think of one less thing about her and like I said over time you may be able to forget all of her!
2006-12-20 08:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try keeping yourself busy with something that needs a lot of attention or embark on something totally new. get together with some of your friends- you don't see them as often when you're in a relationship- and go out and have some fun. you won't ever forget her entirely but you'll learn to move on and appreciate the time and memories you had together and realise that it was a step in tour life that you had to take in order to meet someone else who is more amazing. spoil yourself a little.
2006-12-20 09:08:11 · answer #5 · answered by spranky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u forget her?
well if she's like an ex, then you move on. Try something new. Do something different. Then you can meet some new people. And hopefully, you'll like someone else from there.
If she's a family member, then sorry, you'll never forget her.
The key is to talk to someone about it. You can't handle everything on your own.
Hope this helps.
p.s. you need more info
2006-12-20 08:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by perfectly_messy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It takes time to forget someone u really loved, sometimes going in for another will not solve the case...it just takes time so dont force urself into another relationship thinking it will solve things.Make sure u are in love again !!!! i wish u all the best dear !!
2006-12-20 11:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by BeautyBreak H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to forget someone who has had any kind of impact on your life. Good luck in all you do!
2006-12-20 08:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Time will make the pain fade or make it easier to tolerate but it will always be there. Just spend time with people who care about you and try to find some things that will keep you busy. You'll pull through.
2006-12-20 08:53:42 · answer #9 · answered by Castle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know your circumstances whether you consider the break up your fault or hers but what you have to see is that there was a breakdown in communication otherwise you could have sorted it as you go on you will realise this all though you are hurting like mad at the moment we all go through this you have to kiss a lot of frogs before we meet our princess and i am not calling your ex
2006-12-20 09:06:57 · answer #10 · answered by Ken M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋