I have 2 kids and there all bad. There out of controlle. i cant do nothing.I need help?

Answer 1

if they are "bad" it's because you don't know how to get them to behave. you can enroll in parenting classes, and learn a lot. It's nothing to be ashamed of, we aren't born knowing how.

Answer 2

duct tape and beatings. That is the problem with youth today. Not enough beatings. If I stepped out of line as a kid, my father knocked me into the next week. I am fortunate enough to have been blessed with 2 great kids. I yell a lot but they know I mean business. I have never had to lay a hand on them but the threat was always there. I listen to what they have to say and offer advice. If yours have gone sour, ground them and take away the things they enjoy. You could also try talking to them individually and explain how you feel.

Answer 3

Paint their porches red and tan their hide!!!That's what God give 'em bottoms for! Then put them in their bed so they can have cry time and to think about how the are behaving and why they got a spanking! You cannot give in...you have to let them know that YOU are the parent and they will behave accordingly! Get a grip on them while they are young girl or you will be sorry! I raised 3 boys as a single parent -and they are all wonderful young adults-but they NEVER got the chance to be out of control!

Answer 4

well, first off, honestly, try to get a hold of the super Nanny (i dont know if you get the chance to watch tv, but she has a show and helps people like you). my best advice is to trick them, and then reward them for doing good. if they wont pick up after them selves, "throw the toys away" and dont give them back until they start acting good. im about to have a daughter, and if shes anything like her father, she will be a hand full. i watch that show all the time to get advice. try to at least watch the show, it gives great tips on how to control bad kids. and remember, your kids pick up what you do, so dont yell or hit, because they will yell and hit back.

Answer 5

Well, I might need more details. The most important thing to remember is to be consistant. Do as you say. Take their rights away to something and stick with it until you see a full change. Don't sit and yell or get mad, no need for that. Actions speak louder than words. Give only 1 warning, and do as you say always.. Good luck!

Answer 6

Watch nanny 911 you can get great tips. Start setting rules and stick to them..do ot give in. Set up punishments and stick to them. Once they see you arent going to give in they will straighten out. Good Luck

Answer 7

It because you let them. Put your foot down belive me it works. Your kids cant be any worse then mine. Just show them whos boss and give them time out. It takes time and patience but its worth it. And do you notice there good when your not around and someone else is watching them?

Answer 8

some children you can spank so do so with time out others do better with just being told to go to their room. each child is different my oldest daughter you could beat her to death and she would show you she would do want she wanted while my youngest you could just look at her sternly and she would mind you have to find the boundaries each child will listen to and do it and not back down if you do you are showing inconsistent in their punishments and they will try you to see how far they can go

Answer 9

spare the rod, spoil the child. an occasional a** whooping should do the trick

Answer 10

You obviously are not tough enough... Kick their little behinds... trust me, sometimes it's okay to do it... Better that than to raise a menace to society!