This is a difficult situation. But Im just going to get to the point. I had issues of self-esteem, for no reason because now I just feel dumb, I did get some help. My Boyfriend and I had gotten into a large arguement. That involved me invading his privacy, his phone, and i seen a girl that I didn't know and I flipped for no reason. My mistake. But i started to provoke him and say stupid things to him and he got very upset. So he called me a name, and I got very upset so I slapped him in the face at least 3 times maybe. He had gotten so upset that he went and hit me back. Now I think about it and it was mostly my fault. But on his hand he should have never laid his hand on me since I am a Female, but I provoked it. He gotten some help. I've gotten helped and we realized we don't want to let our relationship go because we love each other, but maybe in time as it heals more then we can date again, Does this sound like a good idea, or should I just leave it?
2006-12-20 08:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
=for the most part I agree with everyone else so there is no need to repeat. Hopefully both of you have learned by this and I would give it one last shot. It is a definite plus that both of you realized you needed help and that to me says a lot. So yes, it sounds like an excellent idea. Why not start today. Ho. Ho, Ho. Merry Christmas.
2006-12-24 05:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
YOU had no right putting your hand on him. If you dont want to be hit..DON'T HiT! Women have no right to think that just because they are females they can hit a man and NOT expect to get hit back. Its wrong. Equality is what women have wanted forever so if you hit him...you deserve to be hit back. Perhaps he is the one that should be leaving you alone. You snooped, invaded his privacy, hit him and your self-esteem issues will KEEP you doing that kind of bullsh*t!!!!
2006-12-20 16:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Why is it that women are expecting not to get hit back? I know alot of guys who say, i wont hit a girl, unless she hits me. You shouldnt have snooped, but hey, i have too. But i think you two should stay away from each other, because you dont have a healthy relationship. Until you have gone through intense counseling, stay away from each other...
2006-12-20 16:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a woman is man enough to hit a man then she is man enough to take it like a man. There is never a good excuse for hitting, though. If you love each other enough, you should be able to work it out. As long as you are meant to be together, though. If it's meant to be, it will be.
2006-12-20 16:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Amy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think once u lose respect for each other, which means calling each other names and hitting each other, u might wanna consider to seriously talk about it, take a break, or move on.
Good Luck!
2006-12-20 17:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you two feel that you can move past all the stuff that has happened then go for it.
2006-12-20 16:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont condone hitting, but you asked for it. time should heal, then try again.
2006-12-20 17:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋