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l was with my girlfriend for almost 1and a half year.My girlfriend was coming to Germany to visit me. On her way, she met a man and through conversations, changed numbers. since l was 5 minutes late, she called me with the cell phone from the man to ask me where l was. l told her l will be there in 5 minutes. I asked her on the phone, where she was callin from and she told me a man help her. I told her, l will be happy to say thanks to the man but withing 2 minutes that l was there, the man was gone. Ok, we left the train station and drove home. On the way l asked her why she did not allow me to thank the man for his hospitality. she said because the man got to live. I asked then did u change numbers and she said "yes we did" l asked her if she still needs the number , then she said no, so she deleted the number. In 5 months time again, whiles she was coming, she met another man, exchanged numbers and when l saw the number she told me it was the number from her mums friend but was n

2006-12-20 10:12:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

the man was not. i knew this man she was talking about, but the man has never been to germany before. but the number on the phone was a number in germany. I disbelieved her nd called the number infront of her. The man on the line told me, he just met her in the train on her way to germany this time and even he doesn´t know her mum. When l asked her why she lied, she answered me by saying "because you are jealous" l told her, it is better to make me jealous than to lie to me, which will result in untrust between us. Can l trust her? l love her still. For almost 1 year, she had a number from another man, she lied to me that, she never knew where the number came from till this day when l begged her to tell me the truth on that incident and she confirmed that, yes, the man gave her the number that if she looses her way, she could call him. Is she a lie or l am jealous?

2006-12-20 10:17:53 · update #1

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Give it up....You've been snookered, and it WILL happen again, too.

2006-12-20 10:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yes i do think that is a reason to lie especially 4 your girlfriend because it sounds like u guys are doing the long distance relationship thing and if that the case there r only 2 reasons that she would lie about something like that

1. U r a very jealousy boyfriend and she doesn't want to risk telling u the truth and losing her relationship with u because of your insecurity's (if they r that strong let her go now and save the both of you some time and hurt because if ya can't trust them now u never will)
2. Shes cheating on u or thinks that your cheating on her (and u finally caught her)

2006-12-20 10:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She is looking for more than u are offering right now or else she wouldn't be exchanging numbers with every tom ,**** & Harry ,Move on find a woman who appreciates u .

2006-12-20 10:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0 0

NO

2006-12-20 10:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0 0

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