Marriage & Divorce - 28 July 2006

how much sex is just right and how much is too little and how much is too much?? For a couple married 6 years w/3 kids???

2006-07-28 18:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by naightengale 3

...so I get the double bed to myself? his feet honk!

2006-07-28 17:54:00 · 28 answers · asked by monkeynuts 5

2006-07-28 17:52:51 · 14 answers · asked by bstrick338 1

My fiance & I have been together for 5 years(gettin' married next year) We had a great sex life until 2 1/2 years ago. He has 2 jobs right now, which he has to have--one is a step above a volunteer.
I've always thought men wanted to have sex all the time, I'm now realizing that's not true. I have to initiate sex if it happens and 99% of the time he's done in about 5minutes & too tired to go another round.......help me!

2006-07-28 17:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by jb 1

he just rolls over after he is done. There is no "lovemaking" anymore just sex. We have been together for 5 years now. Is he just not interested in me anymore as a person? Should I be worried

2006-07-28 17:46:38 · 21 answers · asked by mommyaf 2

2006-07-28 17:46:18 · 8 answers · asked by naightengale 3

2 years ago i married my bf. he works in a call centre wit a B.com degree in hand & im a teacher. he is 4 years elder 2 me & our relationship was of 4 years b4 marriage. i had been telling him 2 study more 2 get a better job bt he kept saying he will do dis job only 4 rest of his life. im a daughter of a AICTE director-a rich, succesful & respected man. i got many proposals from ministers, doctors, enginners, rich men bt i choosed my bf. now i think i did a mistake marrying him. dere is no money in da house. he is very loving, caring, coperative. but i want money also. im worried abt my kids. im not able to lead my life da way i did in my dad's house. my parents r worried & asking me 2 adjust. i refused money from them & am teaching in schools since i got married. & now im thinkig wat else can i do 2 earn more money. he is hopeless. our working timings r different,even in weekends so v cant spend time together. actually i dont feel like. as a result we r nt happy. dont know wat to do.

2006-07-28 17:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by gehhna j 1

I live in KY. I have been seperated for 6 yrs. My so-called spouse
is in prison in CA. I finally tracked him down, but I want to serve
him papers, but I don't want to waste more money, in case he
gets out. Then I won't know where he is again....What do I do ?..
The prison officials will not tell me when he gets out, nothing.

2006-07-28 17:43:13 · 7 answers · asked by CraZyCaT 5

2006-07-28 17:39:36 · 14 answers · asked by Rob 2

I am unhappy in my marriage and am trying to decide if it will be better for my son if I stay and try to work it out, or leave and try to find someone else. I would love to hear from adults whose parents divorced when they were young (before school age).

2006-07-28 17:38:09 · 13 answers · asked by zanahoria611 2

my husband kept sexual wants/preferences a secret throughout our dating life---I thought we were good and had a fun sex life--but over the last 4 yrs of being married i have come to find out he is into porn where women appear to be getting raped, and he himself likes pain during sex--and i am just NOT into it at all...I want to please my husband--but when I try I am so repulsed, I no longer enjoy sex. I am no prude--I just don't associate pain with pleasure....he does--what the heck am I to do?? we have kids so I dont just want a divorce..he really is a good man too...but how can we be married and not be intimate???

2006-07-28 17:29:23 · 6 answers · asked by sosadgirl 1

I love her dearly. Her best friend (20+ years) is divorced. Her friend has been celibate since the divorce. She and my wife were talking, she told my wife she thought I was attractive. One thing led to another and now my wife wants me to hook up w/ her friend. Her friend is all for it. I find her friend attractive and she has a great personality. I feel very flattered however, at the same time I feel very nervous and awkward. Like I said I love my wife and would do anything to make her happy. I just don't know what to do!
Should I?
Thanks

2006-07-28 17:28:14 · 20 answers · asked by Carl D 1

2006-07-28 17:27:39 · 13 answers · asked by fulladoubt 2

i totally feel this way right now and need advice, asap

2006-07-28 17:27:22 · 9 answers · asked by star bright 2

i love my wife but the sex sucks i need some action

2006-07-28 17:22:52 · 35 answers · asked by gary m 1

I met this man in college we dated for about a year, i then moved on and got married two times since this man, he got married on e time for only 6 months, he then still keep in contact threw my second marriage, he still says he loves me after all these years. i never had a really attraction toward himbecause he is not the best looking, but he always gave me anything i wanted when we did date. I am now separated from my second marriage and filing for a divorce, he still wants me and wants to be married tome. He is dating another woman and has adopeted her son as his but he he said he did not want to marry her, but he says he will leave this woman afete about 2 years and be with me, i feel that is not right because he is now leaving that woman who he had maybe some feelings for cause he adopoted her child. what do you think. he also have another child by accident by another person that is his child, he has no dealing with her at all. should i give him a chance he want give up.

2006-07-28 17:18:31 · 21 answers · asked by girlmiddle 1

I dont mean a seperation i just mean time apart. My hubby and I have been married almost 6 years and we havent spent but the time hes at work apart. We always do things together. (He did go out of town for work for two weeks about a year ago but thats about it) those have been the only nights we didnt spend together. we got together in june '99 and havent been apart since.
I have asked him if he would like to "go out with the guys" and he always says "what guys the only people i know are from work and i have to deal with them all day why whould i want to extend the time with them?" Nither of us actually have any friends sept for each other. (never did) He has always said he'd rather spend time with me and the kids than be anywhere else.

2006-07-28 17:16:14 · 8 answers · asked by naightengale 3

My father in law was supposed to be very sick and near death. His wife has poor vision. They live 8 hours from us. My husband went to visit to help them.....almost 8 months ago. When I approached them last month about the whole thing...their response was, "What would you have done with your parents?" They won't move. I am sick and tired of being alone while he has set up a life in Tennessee to "help" his parents. He has reduced their stress level dramatically because he does alot. I feel guilty. Sad. Lonely. Angry. I don't think he should have just stayed.. He is not a single son...he has a wife and stepdaughter. I don't know what to think any more. His parents think it is fine that my husband lives with them to help them. Lonely in Illinois

2006-07-28 17:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by Miriam S 1

Just curious if it is possible for any man to be in love with two women at the same time. It seems quite improbable to me. What do you think?

2006-07-28 17:06:33 · 14 answers · asked by Paulina 1

I would like to have female companionship. But the divorce is not final. Is this normal and how long do I wait

2006-07-28 16:59:36 · 7 answers · asked by unsirtnty 1

He's on the phone right now, we were talking about my daughter. We've been divorced for 13 years. Now, he's telling me all bs. I want to puke...

2006-07-28 16:56:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we separated because things was just not working out, he claim he was moving out of town this was Father's day. Why i see this man 2 weeks later saying he just came back to do some handyman on working on houses. I trieds to make things work but he refuse saying he was not happy with me anymore. Should i be upset that he did not call or should i answer my own question and say he really did't care or think of me anyway, When he seen me the other day he said where is your ring i told him i took it off after he said he did not want me anymore, i stop calling him and now i guess he is wondering what i am doing. He was caught cheating by my daughter, and after that he did't want to come back, he was caught by my daughter kissing someone else.

2006-07-28 16:53:44 · 18 answers · asked by girlmiddle 1

im 13 and ive decided that im going to wait until marriage to lose my virginity. i think that sex is the largest action of love and the person u lose it to has to be someone u love. does anyone agree with me?

2006-07-28 16:53:34 · 14 answers · asked by rjekqlw 5

2006-07-28 16:53:03 · 5 answers · asked by geigy 1

My husband and I got seperated at the beginning of May. We couldn't get along so we decided to seperate because he wanted me to agree to everything that he did. By the middle of May he filed for divorce when I thought we were going to try to work it out.

My daughter went over to his house for the weekend visit and informed me that there was a girl staying there at the house. My daughter is 4 years old. I don't think she realizes what is going on but it bothers me because we haven't even had the divorce final yet and already there is a female living in my old house.

Should it bother me?

2006-07-28 16:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Christina 1

My wife's sister, the object of my present obsession, is quite manipulative, petty, and in many ways, naive. Yet, she also has an aire of mischief, impudence, and rebelliousness that I find very attractive, not to mention her looks, and voice, which I liken to dripping honey. I can only guess at the many reasons why I feel like bedding her down, but would think two possible reasons being my thoughts of my wasted years with no sex (I started having sex late in life, and had few lovers), and loosing my sex appeal as I get older (I will be 44). In a way, I pine away thinking about still being seductive to other women, since I work out to keep a lean, muscular physique. Am I wrong to feel the way I do? Am I just being immature and narcissistic?

2006-07-28 16:41:39 · 7 answers · asked by franco_american1962 2

2006-07-28 16:26:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe asians do because Ive been married to the quiessential American blond headed barbie wanna be clubbing hot ding bat and Now I am married to a wonderful Indonesian woman.
Im sure Ill get the standard jealous american woman response that asian women are subserviant... LOL But its just that jealousy. More and more men are pairing with asian women because american woman no longer have anything to offer.

2006-07-28 16:23:21 · 31 answers · asked by Charles Dobson Focus on the Fam 2

My boyfriend and I have lived together now for over two years. And every or every other weekend his fourteen year old son stays with us. I have my "rules" of the house, but my boyfriend won't say anything to his son - he tells me to tell him. I feel it's my house but not my place to tell his son what to do - this causes much friction and arguments. Please help!

2006-07-28 16:18:35 · 30 answers · asked by michael c 4

2006-07-28 16:08:38 · 13 answers · asked by rickinobetz 3