My Husband wants nothing but sex and.....?

Question

he just rolls over after he is done. There is no "lovemaking" anymore just sex. We have been together for 5 years now. Is he just not interested in me anymore as a person? Should I be worried

Answer 1

Well...lady, look this situation in very positive manners. Certainly he loves you much, otherwise he would not have shown his interest in sex with you. I have witnessed so many askers in Yahoo Q&A platform who are continuously making complaint about their husbands about neglecting their wives in bed. You are surely lucky. Be grateful to him and wipe out any bad notion from your mind............Best Luck.

Answer 2

The good news is that he is still interested in you sexually. If he didn't love you, it is unlikely that he would still have that interest.

I think you should talk to him about it. But, you don't have to say that you are disappointed. Instead, make some time for a bath you can take to together, or reserve a hotel room on a weekend night.

Let him know that you love him very much and that you want to take the time to make love the way you used to. Remind him what you like and ask him what he likes.

If it doesn't go well, don't panic. It means that there's more work to do and you'll need to see a counselor to get through it.

Good Luck to you!

Answer 3

my hubby and i have been married for 6 years and we hardly ever have SEX rolling over after or not. I would love to get at least the sex again more often. be thankful for what u got. And try asking him why he just rolls over. TELL him you need more.

Answer 4

Hopefully it's just a phase in your marrige. I've been married about the same amount of time and this just seem to change as life just kind gets in the way of a relastionship. Maybe try to exspress to him your concerns, and or close shop so to speak if he can't give you more before you all jump in bed.

Answer 5

There could be one good reason for this, he is just plain tired. You need to tell him how you feel and ask him why he does this.

My guy did that for awhile, and he told me it's just the hours he works and he gets very tired and sometimes he knows that I want to be intimate, and he does it he thinks to satisfy me, when really I would just like to have known the truth right off.

When he told me why, I was more understanding at helping him achieve his sleep and then it made things better for us when we did get intimate.

Answer 6

Ouch...miss pelld scared the beejeabers out of me. But, that aside....communication (as cliched as that is ) really is the difference maker. Talk to him and encourage him to talk to you. These are episodic and life movements. They can be addressed and resolved. Don't be worried, communicate your feelings and inquire into his. He is interested in you, and, obviously, you are in him Talk with each other. Good luck dear.

Answer 7

He probably thinks you are OK with this. He obviously loves you and doesn't realize that you still need the cuddling time. There is nothing wrong with you snuggling up to him after sex.

Answer 8

You should take the initiative and get want you want. Talk to him. Men sometimes need to be told what women need. Most time men and women are on completely different pages.

Answer 9

No dont be worrried.Most men dont like lovemaking we just like sex.It also makes us sleepy!

Answer 10

I would worry if I was you. When he starts treating you like a sperm depository, he no longer cares about you as his wife or as a person with feelings.