My wife's sister, the object of my present obsession, is quite manipulative, petty, and in many ways, naive. Yet, she also has an aire of mischief, impudence, and rebelliousness that I find very attractive, not to mention her looks, and voice, which I liken to dripping honey. I can only guess at the many reasons why I feel like bedding her down, but would think two possible reasons being my thoughts of my wasted years with no sex (I started having sex late in life, and had few lovers), and loosing my sex appeal as I get older (I will be 44). In a way, I pine away thinking about still being seductive to other women, since I work out to keep a lean, muscular physique. Am I wrong to feel the way I do? Am I just being immature and narcissistic?
2006-07-28 16:41:39 · 7 answers · asked by franco_american1962 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
narcissistic...BINGO! GROW UP! Your a married man.
2006-07-28 16:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by lilmizzerica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is pure fantasy. Never take it to reality.And never ever tell your wife about it.
Hey you are feeling down about being 44? I had a date with a guy how is 63 today and his he way sexier tham most 44 yr olds.
Stop dewlling on whether you sexuality depends on the look of your body and your seductivness of your self. The guy who focueses on this becomes so inward that girls won't notice him.
Take care of you and feel your own confident self without being.
Be your wifes lover and no one elses.
There is nothing non attractivly sexual as a guy who is working too hard on it.
2006-07-28 17:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you don't think your wife doesn't have these fleeting thoughts? May I suggest you spice up the old you and try some sultry behavior with your wife! Be subtle..like just your breathe on her neck. Take a week or two with subtle hints and watch her reaction. Just keep one thing in mind. "The grass may look greener on the other side.......but it's a different variety and is higher maintenance! :)
2006-07-28 16:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by allnatuarllyrefreshing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immature and narcissistic
I wish I could get a pic of your face when I ask you this: What if your wife is fantasizing of sleeping with your brother? Or your best friend?
2006-07-28 16:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like male menopause.
Stop dwelling on your sister-in-law. You know that it will only end with plenty of trouble for you.
Get a hobby.
2006-07-28 16:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question sounds like a plot for a french movie.
sorry...
2006-07-28 16:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just grab her by the face and drag her in to a closet. Bust her right in half!!!!
2006-07-28 16:45:49 · answer #7 · answered by jeff15116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋