i love my wife but the sex sucks i need some action
2006-07-28 17:22:52 · 35 answers · asked by gary m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After you divorce her.
2006-07-28 17:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try touching her anywhere and everywhere except where it's most desireable for 3 days. Be gentle and loving. When you go to bed tell her you want to gently touch all of her body but avoid the breasts and the gift box. and NO SEX. That is the most important part. Time dulls the senses and it's difficult to get excited after a while. If you plan on being married for the rest of your life like you committed to you will have to work through these times WITH your wife not without her.
PS. Not only will you enjoy the sex on the 4th day but so will she.
2006-07-28 17:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~K~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you serious??? NEVER! unless you're wife says it's okay and I'm sure that's going to be a big NO. Why don't you think about the reason the sex sucks! Are you doing the romantic stuff to get her in the mood?? or are you just trying to get some. Most girls get sooo turned off when every night you just go at it as if she's a 'thing' you use to get a 'fix.' you know that YOU have to work at it to make it better. Fix the problem. Make yourself desirable to her. Make her want you. You have to do the mushy stuff to get the good stuff!!
2006-07-28 17:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by SillyJilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never.
One shouldn't love someone because they want to have sex, one should have sex because they love that someone.
If sex sucks then discuss it. Have a sit down with her tell her why and how it has sucked. You can improve your sex life if you tell her why it does, show her what you would like. If she doesn't really feel comfortable with you telling her these things or if she doesn't want to listen then you could always just go to a sex counsellor.
All in all, if you really really do love your wife then you should try before you hurt her by being with someone else.
2006-07-28 17:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Amethyst S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your wife? Does she think the sex is bad? If so then you might want to communicate more with her and try new and inventive ways to spice up your life. It is never OK to cheat on your wife. How would it make you feel if she cheated on you? That is probably the way she would feel. If all else fails go to a sex therapist with her and try working things out.
2006-07-28 17:30:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alimony, this is what your wife will get if she catches your cheating butt with someone else and all wives do catch cheaters so don't do it.
If you are bored with your wife and want out have the common decency to divorce her before finding a new flavor if you still love her and just want to spice things up you have two options: the first is your hand and a cold shower, the second is try some role playing or a fantasy weekend away with her you might just be suprised us girls get bored too and maybe this is what her problem is.
2006-07-28 17:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only time it is OK to have sex with someone other than your spouse is when your spouse is no longer in the picture due to death or divorce.
2006-07-28 17:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy says a woman sucks in bed, Im sorry to say that it is actually the guys fault.
Even my older flatmate agrees, he said a few guys said some chic they slept with sucked in bed, so he slept with the women to see if it was true.
It was just that the idiot men didnt bring out the sexual freak that was inside.
maybe you should ask her about her fantasies and worry about her sexual gratification instead of your own and she will start to forfill you in ways you never knew you could have.
All women can be anything in bed, you just have to bring it out of her, and being selfish doesnt bring out a sexual freak.
I should know, Im a girl!
oh and yes it is wrong to sleep with anyone else!
I wasnt meaning to put you down. what I wrote is pure fact.
Ask her what gets her going, tell her what you like, dont make her insecure, dont make her feel obliged or rushed and you will get what you want.
Try it, you'll see.
2006-07-28 17:30:43 · answer #8 · answered by miss-pelld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never gonna be okay! I mean Sex isn't all that matters. And besides the guilt you will feel after having sex with someone else other than your wife......
You could even be addicted to it! Man big problem.....!
2006-07-28 17:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by my051688 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gary:
I looked this up in the official men's marriage rule book. You are only allowed to have sex outside of marriage with your wife's sister, cousin (only if they are close), or best friend. You can have sex with more than one of them, but not at the same time.
Oh, and Vegas hookers never count against you.
Good luck.
2006-07-28 17:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch...not a good thing. How could you marry someone that you don't have a good sex with. If you did in the past then why not now. I would rather try to resolve the problem I have now than creating another problem.
2006-07-28 17:26:51 · answer #11 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋