who makes a better wife? Asian or American women?

Question

I believe asians do because Ive been married to the quiessential American blond headed barbie wanna be clubbing hot ding bat and Now I am married to a wonderful Indonesian woman.
Im sure Ill get the standard jealous american woman response that asian women are subserviant... LOL But its just that jealousy. More and more men are pairing with asian women because american woman no longer have anything to offer.

LOL I love the replies from jealous American feminazis. The only qualification american WASPS have is pocket book size. easy. So in america you can buy a wife. Who wants that?

Brp is sensitive to the needs of women... LOL funny. Go hug someone

His Wifey- foul mouthed,american reason why Asian women are far superior to you and other American women. LOL thanks for making my point

I dont base my decision on race. I base it on the fact that over all asian people are raised differently than american people.

Answer 1

This has got to be the funniest thing I read in the last couple days of Yahoo Answers: "I believe asians do because Ive been married to the quiessential American blond headed barbie wanna be clubbing hot ding bat and Now I am married to a wonderful Indonesian woman."

I am Asian so it's hard for say "Hands down, American women make better wives!". With all honesty, I think that it depends on the person. There are some wickedly horrible American women, just like there are some horrible Asian witches.

It goes both ways you know... I am married to a "white guy" and do I think that "white" husbands are better than asian husbands? Not really, it just depends on the person you've met.

BTW, I love reading those jealous answers too! Hightlight of my day!

Answer 2

You've already made up your mind, so why ask?
The real answer is that while Asian women may be perfect for some men, they'd be terrible for others. Same thing can be said for American women. While we're at it, that's also true of Asian and American men. And since Americans come in all races and nationalities, what about Asian-American women?
I think you are overgeneralizing when you assume that your dissatisfaction with your first wife and happiness with your second can be expanded to cover every other woman with the same background.
I mean, do you think if you woke up in the morning married to some total stranger who was Asian you'd be equally happy? You
are amazingly superficial if the answer is yes.

Answer 3

It depends on the woman you marry.
Many white men marry Chinese or Asian women thinking, (based on Japanese brides not Chinese) that there will be somewhat of a submissivness in the marriage. NOT TRUE. Even with Japanese brides you better believe they rule the home with an iron fist.

Chinese women are dominating in marriages and this is why white men divorce with Chinese women. They assume it will be maritial bliss and then one year into the marriage find out how controling they can be...and Chinese women are very STRONG and controlling of their men as well.( you should hear my mother when she's mad). I know lots of white women do not yell at thier husbands. But this is a Chinese thing. Many differences. Trust me, my mother is from China.

My brother on the other hand decided to marry a caucasian woman. When he was looking for a wife he wanted a sweet midwestern girl and found one who lives in Missouri. We are from California and he moved there to be with her. They have been together for 10 years and he is very happy...she treats him very well. She is sweet and soft spoken...opposite of our mother.

I think growing up he saw the way my mother was at home and wanted someone who was truly submissive....good for that girl but that's just not me and I'm asian !!

So that's my personal experience !

Yes you cannot base what a wife will be like stricly on race trust me!

Answer 4

You can't stereotype

Yes there are blonds out there who want to party

and

There are Asian women who also want to party

There are Asian women who marry white men and the men end up miserable as I heard Asian women are controlling in the marriage

and

There are White women who marry Asian men

I've met some Asian men who swear they will never marry an asian woman as they are b*tches at home

Most of my white girfriends are more "asian" than most asian women I know!

the poster who said the above about white women from the countryside or midwest is especailly true-most are extremely good wives to their husbands

i know some women from asian want your greencard be careful but not all

and

I've met White men who say they won't marry a white woman

sigh

The world is a confusing place but one thing i know you can't sterotype

Answer 5

To each is own. You can't put ALL American women down just like ALL Asian women are not all that. You can enjoy who you choose to but why sound so childish about it. Maybe no American women wanted you, huh? We do have higher standards than your so called subservient woman who probably is so glad to have any man, she'd wait on him hand and foot. Not all American women are blonde airheads. You are so ignorant and don't even know it.

Answer 6

im an asian yet i will not choose asian or american coz i just think it is not the race. I know some good housewives from countryside america. Your experience with an american blond can not be generalized among all american girls.

If there is true love among both parties, no fault is visible enough to be noticed. or this love enables you to do more than you are expected of.

Answer 7

I don't think it really matters, it's how you look at it. I would eventually like to be a wife one day and I'm an American woman. But my time hasn't come yet. It just depends on who you marry, cause they could be the same in ways. But I will point out most of them have been raised differently, so therefore they will act differently.

Answer 8

If you have found a person that is a good match for you, why the need to ask anyone else? Is it just an attempt to find further fault with something American as your other posts? Perhaps you would find Indonesia as a home more to your liking...something to consider. My American woman has a lot to offer.

Answer 9

American women do

I was married to a Chinese woman for nearly 8 years. It was torture.I divorced 2 years ago and am now happily married to my wife-a southern lady from the country. She's great and easy to please me.

Unfortulatly problem is not many white women prefer asian men.

Answer 10

A good woman or wife comes from the heart of the woman. Nationality has no bearing on what a woman has to offer as a wife or a woman.