Marriage & Divorce - 8 July 2006

2006-07-08 13:23:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 13:18:54 · 11 answers · asked by rdchamb1962 1

2006-07-08 13:16:53 · 27 answers · asked by lovin'life 1

How can someone make you depressed?
Is this possible?

2006-07-08 13:14:51 · 18 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3

my husband and i were seperated for about 2 months, and during that period he was sleeping with someone else. We are back together now, but i find it hard to look past that sumtimes....any advice?

2006-07-08 13:10:24 · 24 answers · asked by unkown 1

We were on vacation last week, and I had a connection with a cabana boy/bartender. He was really sweet and called me affectionate names and went out of his way for me a lot. I can't stop thinking about him. I would never act on my feelings, but I can't stop thinking about him. My mom and my sister were with me and they saw the extra attention I was getting too. At first I thought maybe he was just working for a tip. So, I gave him one, and he gave it back to me.

2006-07-08 13:06:32 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Tori ♥ 5

2006-07-08 13:02:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my boyfriend and I have been living together for a year now. I am recently divorced and he is too. We entered this relationship saying we never want to have kids or marry again. And the subject comes up often and he states that he is so happy that he never had any kids. Thing is I want to marry him, and I want to have a child. We are in our mid 30's. He has told me before that if he wasn't so against marriage that he would marry me. So my question is--How do I go about telling him what I want without scaring him off?

2006-07-08 12:56:42 · 9 answers · asked by sparkles 4

I'm doing all I can to save money and to have at lest some spending money, so we are moving back with my parents, hard enough. I make my fiance his dinner to take to work usuallu but sometimes I'm tired from my job and can't. When I don't prep his lunch , he doesn't take anything although if he tried to go fix something which takes 5 minutes, he would have lunch.
I found a receipt, he ate out. I don't care if it was 3 bucks, we do need to get some discipline with money here. He's very prone to this, very lazy about making his lunch for work, getting ready a bit earlier so he won't be late, etc.
I know 3 bucks isn't much to most ppl, but it is to us. And it pisses me off when he does this.
So I wrote on it, "This si why I usually cook." He saw it was tossed it and said, "oh whatever girl".
How would you react to this? Any advice?

2006-07-08 12:46:42 · 13 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3

My father did not understand the terms of the division of property. The attorney also did not have him review it. He felt pushed to hurry up and make a dicision. He is 75 and does remember things. The division was totally unfair. He now wants to resind the offer. Also, the name of the investment company where his annuity is is wrong and the company will not take spouse off because their name is not mentioned in decree. Does ANYONE have experience relating to this???? Please help! What do we do, we no longer trust our attorney. Can we call the Judge?

2006-07-08 12:46:31 · 16 answers · asked by Lindy 1

My husband wants to have sex with me all the time, but from time to time, I'm realy not up to it. Should I just have sex for the sake of it, or tell him I really don't feel like making love when I don't? Wouldn't it be some kind of cheating saying I enjoyed when I really didn't want to do it? I mean, he wants to have sex like 3 times a day, sometimes dialy! And yes, he's turned on by me, he's not a sexual addict.

2006-07-08 12:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by AMBER D 6

2006-07-08 12:45:24 · 17 answers · asked by Babygirl86 2

12 hrs later and it's i love you baby. he's 45 yrs old is he going thru midlife crisis? i dont think there is another woman. i think he's trying to prove he's still got the goods, and he has been having problem getting an erection. he does have a father who is very ill, could it just be stress and worry? suggestions on how to handle the behavior. i know he loves me and he's trying to push me away. help, need directions to save this relationship that really is a great one. sex or no sex, it's a good one!

2006-07-08 12:40:23 · 7 answers · asked by cmooredr2 1

I proposed this girl and she told me she does not think it could happen between us, because of the cultural conflict. we r both from the same country though, but different cast. I loved her and love her from last 8 years (since my high school). I was so hurt after hearing what she told me, so I let it go and decided to live with it. I kept my mouth shut and avoid the whole thing. After few weeks she told my best friend If I still want to marry her? she is OK with it, but then again I am gonna have to talk to her family (she is asking me to ask for her hand.) I am so freaking lost. One question that always bugs me. Is she really in love with me or? and many more. can u hep me out here please.

2006-07-08 12:39:13 · 4 answers · asked by Sheeno 2

I have 2 children one is 8 and one is 3, i have been married for 6 years and my wife is acting like she is a very mean person and rude, I really need your help, please.

2006-07-08 12:21:06 · 16 answers · asked by ROGER F 1

Have you ever knocked over an ant mound & watch them build back their home at a crazy-urgent pace! Nature ...Right? I feel that's what's gong on inside me right now & I never 1nce thought that a man could feel a loss of a Family so Bad that he would almost immediately want to Start a family again!
But after I caught my wife in an affair....I Bounced and left her with everything she wanted (including her lover ( I can't call or go by my own apt. cuz ' he & she are there and our last conv. was very uncivil...So I am waiting on the courts....because she is so defensive it's a shame).
Now I sit alone thinking I hear my son's voice. I miss Him and the ideal of having a Happy Family. I honestly know I can't just jump out in the world start making babies with any woman....But that doesn't stop me from feeling such a loss! Is this a phase that all men feel when divorcing? I want more children now and I wish I didn't have these selfish thoughts!
Please give me some helpful advice.

2006-07-08 12:18:51 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3

I need to do this as cheaply as possible. Neither party will contest the divorce.

2006-07-08 11:59:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 11:53:40 · 16 answers · asked by Lindsey H 2

I just really thought it was in very bad taste to be out with me buying detergent for an x wife. He said it was because his son reminded him it was on sale and he wanted to do it for his kids mother. So, what do you make of that?

2006-07-08 11:52:11 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6

I've been married for 8 years and I met my soulmate. He is also married. We love each other and we want to be together, but he is torn because of his children. I've already left my husband. How long should I wait for him to decide what to do before I walk away?

2006-07-08 11:47:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would the birth mothers husband become your step father in law or just father in law?

2006-07-08 11:42:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has a fantasy of sharing me with a number of his buddies. To be honest the idea actually turns me on more than I would care to admit. Is it wrong of me to feel flattered that he wants to show me off to his buddies. We have incredible sex and the idea of being with him and another man sharing me at the same time just turns me on so. I feel that I can't do that unless I can also allow him to be with me and another woman and I cannot handle that. He knows this is how I feel and he has never complained about it. Am I naive to think that if we go through with me being with him and another man that he will not expect to be given the opportunity to be with another woman and me also?

2006-07-08 11:33:19 · 11 answers · asked by mitchsgirl 2

My ex is a functional alcoholic. She drinks a lot, but she also works, feeds our kid, gets her to school, makes sure the homework gets done, etc. My ex is taking our daughter to a wedding out of state where she will most likely get too drunk to care for our daughter. I don't want to get a gardian ad litem or special advocate for our daughter because I don't want to put her through the legal meat grinder. I'm hoping for some options other than police, court, child services...

2006-07-08 11:26:33 · 6 answers · asked by Shannon 1

i know that i love him, but the trust is gone, he says he's sorry, and wants marriage to work, but yet dosn't want to work on the marriage, what am i to do

2006-07-08 11:24:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom works nights and sleeps during the day, my step father has been layed off of work for 2 months. Yesterday I was sun tanning in the back yard, my step father came outside and said I was starting to burn, so he put sunscreen on my back, when I rooled over he kissed me and stuck his tongue in my mouth, the sad part is, I kinda enjoyed it, I have been crying all day, what should I do, I am only 18 years old and can't move out of the house.

2006-07-08 11:16:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an ex husband... I got married at 19 and left him at 25.. I have a new husband now for about 10 yrs. we have one child he is now 7.. my husband has an ex wife and 2 other boys so my son knows his dad has an ex wife, but I am not sure if I should tell him about mine or not... he saw an old prom photo of me and my ex and asked my mom where his daddy was when i was standing next to that man.. I feel like I will be tainted in his eyes if I tell him. but then again he might see the conseqences of getting married to young like his dad and I both done once before....

2006-07-08 11:14:57 · 6 answers · asked by panda 6

he is 50yr, and im 43yr. and married 16yr.
he doesnt want sex. says he is busy and tired and I dont keep his hours.
I work outside the home, 40hr weekly.
how to get him interested in me? im not fat!!!
i try to just touch to wake him and he moves my hand off him and says no. I have tried to suck on him and he pushes me off and says not now.
he works 4 30am, and work at night till 10pm. when to have sex, and how to have it so he wont push me away?

2006-07-08 11:09:46 · 16 answers · asked by cats3inhouse 5

How many boyfriends/girlfriends did you have before you got married to the love of your life?

2006-07-08 11:07:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to my friend's house to celebrate the beggining of our vacation. We had a barbecue there and then some of them decided to play "the truth game". It's a game where you can make questions and the other person has to answer the truth. I participated on that game and i ended up saying really intimate things about me and my boyfriend. I didnt think it would be a bad thing to do, or else i would never have done it. As i thought there was no problem on this, i told my boyfriend everything that happened there. Then, he got angry with me and broke up our relationship.
i answered questions like: "if you had to date someone that is participating on this game, who would it be?" , "tell one thing that your boyfriend asked you to do (sexual things), that you answered 'no way!'" and "tell the most strange thing you already used to masturbate yourself"
He said that i should tell my friends what happened between us and that this game may have terrible consequences.

2006-07-08 11:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by Naomi 3

2006-07-08 10:53:22 · 8 answers · asked by Steven F 1