My mom works nights and sleeps during the day, my step father has been layed off of work for 2 months. Yesterday I was sun tanning in the back yard, my step father came outside and said I was starting to burn, so he put sunscreen on my back, when I rooled over he kissed me and stuck his tongue in my mouth, the sad part is, I kinda enjoyed it, I have been crying all day, what should I do, I am only 18 years old and can't move out of the house.
2006-07-08 11:16:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you're worried if you tell your mom then she'll blame your dad. But you don't want that to happen because you did it enjoy it and I think you'd like him to kiss you again if you didn't have to face your mom everyday. That's why you said you can't move out of the house yet but wish you could so you would'nt have to face your mom everyday knowing that you were kissing your dad.
Of course I could be wrong and if so then you'll let me know I think.
2006-07-08 11:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by fun_guy_otown 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What he did was WRONG, and YES, you should tell your mother NOW. Why have you NOT told her? What are you waiting for? For him to kiss you again? Then YOU will also be guilty of destroying your mothers trust and respect. You should NOT be wearing anything that shows your body in front of him. Of course, that sounds like I am telling you it is your fault, BUT, truthfully, the way a girl dresses TURNS a man on, and if you continue to wear swim suits around him or revealing clothes, then you are guilty of trying to turn him on. Now that you liked his kiss, you may want more, and that is just wrong! Shame on you! The very moment he started to kiss you, you should have slapped his face. You are old enough to know better. Now, get off your butt, and get in there and TELL YOUR MOTHER! ONLY 18 is not an excuse! If you were ONLY 12, then it would have been ONLY his fault, but girl, you are a woman. You LET him kiss you! Stop playing innocent! Do something RIGHT now, and tell your mom.
2006-07-08 11:26:48 · answer #2 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know how close your mom and you are, if you feel safe enough to tell her, do so immediately. If not, tell a close family relative, preferably female. What he did was totally unacceptable, and if you do nothing he may go farther the next time with you. Stay away from him as much as possible, always have someone else with you if he is there. You say you cannot move out of the house, but maybe there are relatives you could live with. good luck
2006-07-08 11:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL your mother, and your step father needs serious help..
That is so wrong on so many levels. I can't even begin to tell you.
Besides that in a way is cheating on your mother and she has a right to know..
Also It is your mothers job to protect you no matter what, you are her daughter. I would want my child to tell me if something like that happened to them..at any time in their lives.
If your mother blames you then she is no better than the man she is married to...He has no right to do that do you..
A step father is a father figure...in place of the other parent....
GO TELL YOUR MOTHER, DON'T WAIT ANOTHER MINUTE.
2006-07-08 11:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by Not a Daddys Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A step father is supposed to be like a real father. That's just sick. I think you should tell your mom. How could you go on without telling her? Things can get out of control. Don't let it slide. Tell your mom. It's not right for him to do that. Dont hide it from your mom.
2006-07-08 11:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you say??You enjoyed kissing your step FATHER?!?! what is wrong with you? of course you should tell your mom.. she has all the right to know! and why didn't you stop him in the first place?! dont you feel the least bit disgusted?! i can imagine best friends boyfriend.. i can imagine anything else but your father of all people?! you definately need to tell your mom.. before this goes any further.. even if he is to blame, you still enjoyed it so it is not entirely his fault! hopefully you will make the right decision, i can only tell you so much.
good luck
2006-07-08 11:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You owe it to your mother to tell her what happened. She should be aware of what a loser she's married to. I'd leave out the liking it part though........no sense in hurting her more than she already will be.
Alternatively, you're 18 and should be able to get a job and start planning on getting your own place.
2006-07-08 11:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by 7thWave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell your mom. If you two have an open and honest relationship, and you have not given her any reason to doubt that you are telling the truth, then she should believe you. If she does not, then take steps not to be left alone with him ever again.
2006-07-08 11:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by ladysea8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. that is a narrative. i do not fairly comprehend because i comprehend what may be excellent(properly thats the question of element), moral, moral yet then there is what's astounding, tactful, delicate, mild....So that is a demanding. the lady has to opt for which direction she chooses. Which looks excellent for her.
2016-11-01 11:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember one thing at your age you are responsible for your own actions. Stand back and look at the whole picture, maybe you will realise then that you have done wrong, he didn't force himself on you.
2006-07-08 11:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋