Marriage & Divorce - 8 July 2006

I have been married for 7 years and my husband has only taken me out 4x. Last week my mom kept our daughter for the entire week and my husband did not offer to take me anywhere, but he went to play soccer 3x (he's on a league) and I just sat there like and idiot. Anyway the weekend came an he had not planned anything, I was ready and he say's we don't have the money. huh! at first I was angry then I just got really sad, but I let him know that If and when I had an opportunity to go I was going regardless if he were going or not. Now the opportunity has come and I want to teach him a lesson, not to take me granted. I need some good advice, because I know that if I go without him, all shi# is going to hit the fan. Please I need some serious advice only.

2006-07-08 03:12:48 · 17 answers · asked by mexme2day 2

2006-07-08 03:09:31 · 27 answers · asked by Destiny 1

2006-07-08 03:05:00 · 1 answers · asked by justwondering2 2

2006-07-08 03:04:59 · 4 answers · asked by wedjb 6

2006-07-08 02:55:53 · 32 answers · asked by ernie3232 2

Seriously with divorce in existence, why bother getting married? If you are meant to be together, you will remain together regardless if you are married or not. So why marry? Marriage doesn't guarantee forever.

2006-07-08 02:53:28 · 10 answers · asked by jan 2

Divorce shouldn't exist, and neither should divorced people. Divorced people are just plain lazy. They want to wreak havoc on society by using their so-called "reclaimed singlehood" to prey upon the truly innocent real single people out there. It's not enough that these divorced people wreck one marriage, but I think a line needs to be drawn when they start ruining another life by remarrying. And it's awful what they're doing to the kids, too. Mommy and Daddy shouldn't be separated. Marriage is something that should be taken seriously. It shouldn't be something that a person just do on a whim. A alternative to these problems (divorced people) is for divorced people to register as sex offenders. They screwed up one marriage. Divorced people are going to screw up the next marriage if a single person let them and destroy you and turn you into a nuisance like them in the process. It all takes but one shot to get it right. It's as easy and simple like that.

2006-07-08 02:45:55 · 16 answers · asked by mydocumentsmusicdownloads4 1

I have 4 children the youngest has just started school. I have a lovely family and Husband however I am very unhappy and feel I have lost my identity, I feel like Cynderella, a mother, a cook, a cleaner, a nurse, etc etc but I have lost me. I love my Husband but I have lost my sex drive completely. Has any one else ever felt like this and how can I get it all back

2006-07-08 02:40:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know just as sure as I'm sitting here that she's going to expect me to do things around the house that entire weekend. Clean the gutters out, trim the shrubs, etc. Meanwhile, my golfing buddies are knocking down a few tall cool ones on the ninth hole and talking about which titty bar they're going to go to after the round. I never realized that marriage was going to be so restraining. There are only four wekeends every month, and - if I give up even one - that means I'm cutting out 25% of my golfing time. True, I take off early on the occasional Friday and knock out 18, but that's not every week. Any suggestions on how I can get her to be reasonable about this?

2006-07-08 02:37:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are 4 of us me, my husband, and another couple which are our best friends. The male friend has a bad habit talking dirty and trying to get us all for together sexually when he is drinking, knowing that it would never happen. I just over look what he says and blame it on the alcohol, Now my husband usually just kids about it. But one night while he was drinking calls our female friend and is talking dirty to her, She hung up on him. I found out about this and freaked. He says he didn't mean anything by it he was drunk, and blames it on the fact of the conversation that goes on when we are all together. But we weren't all together he did it alone. The other couple was upset as well and they talked about it and are ok they also feel like he does that it was a result of our past conversation. But it is hard for me to get past what he did. What should I do?

2006-07-08 02:30:30 · 15 answers · asked by Tina D 1

av u ever had 1 ..if so why ..if not would u ?
honest ppl only please

2006-07-08 02:24:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My GF has really strong PMS times. We usually fight over little things and break up. 4 - 5 days later she becomes all loving and caring. 2 different people. Talks about getting married. I love her, it hurts but I can't quit her.

2006-07-08 01:46:14 · 16 answers · asked by Terry 1

Ok, i know as a man i have a strong sex drive, I think about sex quite a bit and fantasize alot. Now my question is Do women think the same way? are they just a little more shy about it. I know men (not myself) that feel they could even though there married find another women for just sex with no emotional attachment. do women think this way as well? just curious. I know my wife and i have been married 17 years and she is just now really opening up sexually, just wondering how the other sex thinks...lol

2006-07-08 01:40:55 · 16 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2

My husband is gone. He said he had a contracting job to go do and he left and hasn't been home for 3 days now. Yesterday, I found that his name was crossed off my mail box, a lot of his stuff is gone, but a lot is also left home. I found out that our r.v. has been taken out of storage. He left me some money, and when he left he kissed me and said he would come home about 3am from this job because this guy needed the job done asap. We weren't fighting, but we have had some money problems lately. I called the police and there is nothing they can really do. I think he might have gone to Colorado for some work, but I don't know if he is planning to come back. I found an email to a contractor there that invited him for a job, but in his reply, he said no he couldn't leave me and the kids. I know he loves me, but I think he just snapped. So, what should I do now? How long should I wait for him here? I could go back home to my folks and start over but what if he can't find me?

2006-07-08 01:36:56 · 27 answers · asked by cabbiegrl 3

What are the secrets to achieve this?
this question is for those married for more than 7-10 years

2006-07-08 01:08:26 · 18 answers · asked by Amantia A 3

And why?

2006-07-08 01:01:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married with 2 kids. There is a girl who really is making me loose my mind. I really like her and care for her. I am not sure if I am corresponded, but I think I would reach her if I try. My wife is a good woman. We have some problems, but nothing big. But it is a fact that I am not as excited with my marriage as I am supposed to be. I am trying hard to do the right thing, but everytime I "decide" to do so, she comes back to my thoughts. I really like this girl, and she is also a great woman. Any thougts?

2006-07-08 00:43:26 · 23 answers · asked by d58 1

2006-07-08 00:27:27 · 14 answers · asked by foo-foo 1

my baby is 7 months and my daughters father visits whenever it's convient for him. he does whatever he wants with his time and comes by with the crumbs of his time. he hasn't visited in a week and hasn't even called. this is the longest he has went and i'm fed up.what can i do to get some control over this situation.i don't allow my daughter to go to his house because his lifestyle is undesirable so that's not an option.just because i'm a woman and we don't live together doesn't mean he gets to be a whenever he wants to dad. please i need some insight. we were never married

2006-07-08 00:27:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was close friends with a girl who I liked, so I told her. She responded by saying that she just wanted to be friends. This was about 2 weeks ago. Over the course of the last 2 weeks she has kissed me many times and we have cuddled intimately alot. She rings me 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night, and many times during the day. We go out for dinner alot! She has told me everything about her! We talk for hours each day.

She still says we are friends. Says she has gotten hurt by previous boyfriends many times and not long ago and is scared of giving her heart away again.

What does this mean? Does she even like me? What should I do?

2006-07-08 00:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by PLH 1

About two weeks ago we were talking on the phone while she told me that what I would do if she won’t be with me for And now she is so cold and it seems that she doesn’t want to spend much time with me.
a while. And in this time if I see another girl which she looks like a cool girl who I may like to be friend with would I become friend with that girl or not? I told her that I love her and I won’t think of another girl. She said that I can’t believe you and I may test you.

2006-07-08 00:20:39 · 14 answers · asked by Saeed K 1