2006-07-08 02:55:53 · 32 answers · asked by ernie3232 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Keep the fantasy. My husband and I had a threesome and a foursome. Ruined our marriage. We have been married for 10 years but now it is only for the kids.
2006-07-08 02:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Carrie C 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think about the underlying reason why you desire a threesome in the first place... is it purely sexual or is there something else missing in your marriage? Your wife may be against it for a variety of reasons including morality issues or the fact that she doesn't find it sexually appealing. Only you know whether or not you're willing to sacrifice your marriage in order to fulfill your desire... if your not and you still can't get it out of your mind perhaps you and your wife should pay a visit to a marriage therapist and maybe you can get to the bottom of that nagging desire.
2006-07-08 03:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by witchikitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoulda got the 3some stuff outta your system before you got married. Now, your wife is either the boss or your ex and as long as she's the boss, 3 somes are out.
2006-07-08 06:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by jerryg1212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to the fantasy. Your wife will never change her mind, the only way you're gonna get it is if she picks someone, and you asking her about it a lot will only make her want to do it less. If she's against it you should just put back in your mental file for those cold nights when its just you hand your hand.
Good Luck
2006-07-08 03:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by redtoolips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you want to have a threesome mostly because your wife is against it. If your wife was for the idea, it probably wouldn't seem that appealing. Keep it a fantasy, have your wife dress up as a stranger or something instead.
2006-07-08 03:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by absolutelance 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should remember why you got married in the first place. Last I checked you married your wife to be with your wife...not other women. A marriage is a commitment to ONE person wholly and totally.
Forget your threesome unless you want to be a onesome.
2006-07-08 03:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like it's gonna stay a burning desire
2006-07-08 03:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to respect your wife's wishes if you have any respect for your wife at all. And dont punk out and use this as an excuse to cheat on your wife. Thats sad pathetic and lame
2006-07-08 02:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by eddie9551 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men have that burning desire but if she's not into that then you'll have to respect that. There's plenty of other way to spark up your sex life.
2006-07-08 09:25:28 · answer #9 · answered by furbee_4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with it your married you lost the right to a 3some when you said i do
2006-07-08 02:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋