Hello, My ex husband will soon get the kids every other weekend and I am dreading this! I never wanted to NOT raise my kids full time and want to be a big part of their life all the time. I know he is their father and has rights too and I am not trying to deny him that. I am just so sad about this. I know I should probally enjoy the time to myself to do things for me, but I really don't care much about that. I have a boyfriend and he would love it, but I won't, instead I will be miserable waiting for their safe return! Plus, they are little (under five) and all I am going to do is worry about their safety. He is NOT a responsible person and is so self centered when I was with him, he never watched the kids, I did, (also ex drug addict, cheater, etc. but the courts do not care. I am going to be dead before I am 40 due to all this stress over this. Plus, I work full time and feel like I will never see them..... How do others handle it?
2006-07-08
03:32:34
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Bet L
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