2006-07-08 04:34:18 · 16 answers · asked by tlain2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell yeah, once she is gone every thing unless you just really need to keep it (like the washer & dryer) goes. And you buy new stuff together. Of course when you can afford it.
2006-07-08 06:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance wore a cross necklace his ex-wife gave him for the first two years of our relationship. He stated he just liked the necklace and since he picked it out anyway he didn't really want to stop wearing it. It didn't really bother me but I did want to give him something he'd like just as much and would want to wear it everyday, something to symbolize our new relationship.
Turns out his ex-wife had a matching necklace (I didn't know this until recently, but it wasn't significant to him). She gave it to their oldest daughter, so I suggested that he give his necklace to his younger daughter. He did, and now I have the opportunity to replace the necklace with something else.
2006-07-08 04:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by blueskies7890 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's just a habit now? I know I'd feel naked without my necklace that I wear everyday, even though it's a gift from a family member I don't much like.
I wouldn't get too upset about it. He's with you now.
2006-07-08 04:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's contained in the evaluating degree, that takes position. She's taking under consideration the total lot he did for her that you do not do and visa versa. you likely want to be immediately ahead and ask her what the aspects of their courting is that she misses? did he provide her extra interest, is he nicer, etc.
2016-11-06 01:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do the same thing Sassy said.. buy him a new one... it would bug me a little too.. if he is still holding on to the necklace what else about the relationship is he holding on to as well..
2006-07-08 04:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. It's just a necklace. They are ex's for a reason, unless she is the one who left him, he just likes he necklace. If she is the one who left him and it makes you uncomfortable, say something to him.
2006-07-08 04:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because it may have special meaning for him. Maybe it's something he wanted for a long time and she got it for him as a gift. Do you erase all things special to you because you are seeing someone new?You shouldn't have to give up who you are inside to be in a relationship.
2006-07-08 04:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! If a relationship is truly over - he shouldn't want or need any reminders. If it is valuable - he should have it remade into a new one by a jeweler. Maybe you could do it for him as a gift?
2006-07-08 04:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with one or two of the other answers....buy him one just like it to replace the one she bought him. If he still won't take it off...then I would believe that he was holding onto it for reasons that weren't fair to you.
2006-07-08 05:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll gift him a new one,which is particularly of my taste,and tell him that its not a gift,but my special feelings for him which would remind him of me when i m not with him!!!
2006-07-08 05:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋