Is it wrong of me not to go down on my wife? I never done it before and never had an interest in doing it. If majority of you say it's necessary I will try it. Hopefully I am good at it if I do. Please give tips if the answer is yes.
2006-07-08 06:25:21 · 24 answers · asked by Crazy Joe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think oral sex is important in any relationship, unless one of you is getting it and the other isn't. The only thing that is important is a healthy sex life where both parties are happy and satisfied. I think you're best bet would be to discuss this with your wife. Find out if it's something that she actually wants to try. She may not be interested, and you could be worried for no good reason. That said, do you ever give her manual stimulation? If so all you would want to do is the same type of action but with your tongue instead.
2006-07-08 06:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong if you don't go down on her or him, Oral sex is another level of love for you man or women.. For the women- if you are on your monthly then you should go down on your man so at least your still pleasing your man....For the men- when she is off her monthly then you need to give her a night she's been dreaming of... Why is it sooo hard for men to go down on a women but, sooo easy for a women to go down on a man...? what is wrong with that picture???? If you want a great trusting, and loving relationship than you will do anything to make the other person in your life happy right???? Now think of him/her first and you second....
April LeRoy
2006-07-08 13:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your wife give you head??? If she does what would you do if she stopped?? Would it bother you?? Would it have an affect on your marriage??
If your wife wants you to go down on her...you should. You may find that you like it. She just needs to make sure she is clean and trimmed up....no one wants hair stuck in their teeth!! You may not be "good" the first couple of times you do it...but ask your wife what feels good and what doesn't. Then in time...you will be good at it...and your wife will appreciate it!
2006-07-08 15:25:45 · answer #3 · answered by SKITTLES 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you would need to talk to your wife. Ask her if she really wants it. Maybe your thinking to much and she doesn't even want it. Ask her if its a big deal and if she does want it try it you never know it you will enjoy it if you don't try it. Maybe she will even do enjoy doing some oral sex to you. Overall you need to sit down and talk to her and from there on take a decision that will work for both of you.
2006-07-08 13:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by chabely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Crazy Joe!!!! You really are Crazy!! Does your wife want you to go down?? I am sure she does. Any woman who says "ew, no, it's nasty" needs to take better care of her personal hygiene!
I would say that 99 times out of 100 my guy goes down on me when we have sex and I wouldn't have it any other way. He is a master at it too! He makes me come at least 3 times EVERY TIME! Why would any woman NOT want that? Yes you should go down on her and practice and practice until you can make her squeal, scream and moan with pleasure over and over again, like my man can do to me!!
What are you waiting for?? Go on, get to it.....!!
2006-07-08 13:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex isn't necessary, but it can sure liven things up a bit! See if she's interested in 69. That way, you both give and you both receive.
Good luck!
2006-07-08 13:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But if this is a big deal for her, then you guys need to compromise. If it is not really a put off for you, you can make a deal. Tell her you would try it but if you don't like it or is not comfortable with it then she does not have to make you do it. Perharps you may need more time to get used to the idea, read up & get informed.
2006-07-08 13:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Delta O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not one thing can define a successful marriage. It's a all round game and most important is do right in hard times.
2006-07-08 13:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by Pierre M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about pleasing each other. If performing oral sex on your wife is something that turns you off, than you shouldn't, otherwise go for it. She'll guide you through.
2006-07-08 14:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by Georgia F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you never done it then try it ask your wife to help you with the details since it will be her body every girl is diffrent give it a try im a female and i like it but still gotta have the hubbie to
2006-07-08 13:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋