Marriage & Divorce - 8 July 2006

My son is 5 years old he doesn't know his father. I never knew he was married until 2 years ago from a 7 year relationship. We weren't a couple but he begged me to be w/ him the entire time. I just always had a funny feeling about him. I got pregnant and couldn't kill my baby. He begged me to keep it too. When I found out about his wife I called and told her but he told her I was just lying and like all women who are hurt I'm lying about having a baby. I just moved and found out his wife works around the corner, should I give her a visit, b/c now he won't help with my child b/c I won't still go out with him. He doesn't know I know where his wife works yet but I'm pissed he did me and my baby this way.

2006-07-08 15:54:40 · 17 answers · asked by Keylove 2

I am the step mom to two kids, a girl (16) and boy (14). My stepson had a birthday about a month ago. Around the same time the bio mom invited my stepdaughter only on a week long trip to Mexico. My stepdaughter said the bio mom had bought my stepson a gift (Some AE jeans and a card w./ money in it). Well bio mom forgot to give it to the grand parents when SD was dropped off to her. Then , my SD was supposed to bring the gift back with her, but forgot. So then my husband emailed the bio mom because my SS kept asking about the gift and if she was sending it. Her reply was "let him know it's on the way" . Well that was about 2-3 weeks ago and still nothing. The poor child has checked the mail and asked every day where it is. So we emailed the bio mom again to ask about it for him saying maybe she should track the package or something , but now she will not respond. What the heck would she do that for?

2006-07-08 15:53:10 · 9 answers · asked by gators2020 2

revisit an old relationship from the past. I am hoping that an old boyfriend that I hurt will show interest in re-kindle-ing . . .but I guess I hurt him pretty bad. He was going to propose I think and I just shut him out. "Cause I could do better. . .way bettter then, . . .and now I want something EASY and want to get him back . . . ?

2006-07-08 15:45:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 15:38:50 · 20 answers · asked by orphancab 1

2006-07-08 15:34:01 · 15 answers · asked by t c 1

2006-07-08 15:32:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 15:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Reasons please drop smiley

2006-07-08 15:16:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't drink or go to bars and scared about dating. Dated my husband from age 16-19. Got married at 19 and will soon be divorced after 6months of seperation from that same man of 21 years. Tell me where to go. I don't want to be alone in the future.

2006-07-08 15:13:45 · 20 answers · asked by Destiny 1

Iam an Indian working singapore as IT Engg.I was married in 2001 and my wife is very shy like village girl she never expresses anything openly.immed after marriage she became pregnant and she went to her moms'house &i also joined her.When i saw my wife's sister i found she was like my dream girl.she possessed all qualites what i have in my dreams as wife.so i started loving her very much and she too loved me.but for which i never hated my wife ,i did everything to my wife and i was good to her too.i took her to all places.but my wife's sister after she got married told me that she never loved me at all but only acted for her sister's sake that my wife was facing some problems due to my sisters.this was real shock to me,becoz i loved her so much.so now i hate everyone and i want to leave my wife also and divorce her and now she also came to know that i loved her sister.but still she is not giving divorce she says she loves me very much.i feel she says only for money how to divorce

2006-07-08 15:11:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-08 15:06:31 · 17 answers · asked by swift lady 1

first of all, my ex fiance and i were engaged for 19 months and weve been through alot. We always fight about petty things but we always loved eachother. July 2, he had to go back to the states (were stationed in Korea) for leave. Before he left, i didnt feel right but i tried to ignore it bec I know, he loves me and my son so much. The week before he left we spent time holding eachother and crying and telling eachother how much we want to get married. 2 days after he got to the states, he broke up with me over the phone. And since then, he never called me. And everytime I call him he would say he doesnt love me anymore and he realized he didnt want to get married. He seems so sure about it but him breaking up with me on the phone after the long term commitment? My question is, DOES HE STILL LOVE ME? He is coming back on the 30th of July but he said he didnt wanna see my face again. Its so impossible for him to fall out so easily and get over me and my son that quick... help!!!!

2006-07-08 14:55:37 · 26 answers · asked by phlegm1134 1

a father pays for child support? You see my sons father makes over a hundren grand a year, he says he will only be giving me 300 bucks a month.
I say its more like a 1000 as a friend I know who makes about 75 grand and year and pays 900 a month.
The father of my son is being a real asshole.

2006-07-08 14:50:11 · 17 answers · asked by GTZEVRYTHNG 1

when you first started dating your wife/husband....how long was it before you knew he/she was who you were going to marry? and did you feel you both knew it?

2006-07-08 14:49:53 · 21 answers · asked by Jody SweetG 5

i feel like he's lost interest,can i make him fall in love with me again?

2006-07-08 14:48:47 · 34 answers · asked by emily o 2

There is a website called "dontdatehimgirl.com" and I was wondering if anyone out there might know of any other site where a person can post about or look up info on cheaters. Any input would be appreciated. Thank you.

2006-07-08 14:44:35 · 7 answers · asked by unique1 3

asked 2 ? before. anyways, i was talkin earlier about takin my kids with me out of state to my family cuz my wife isnt in control. one problem i didnt mention earlier is that the oldest child isnt mine. i met my wife right after she got pregnant. ive ALWAYS considered the kid mine tho. and no, my name isnt on the b. certificate so i know i cant take him. anyway, my other 2-there is a CHANCE they arent mine. i dont care. never have. my name is on their b.certificate.tin my heart, those kids are MINE. i know some of you wont understand that. im fine with it. my point is this-if i leave and take my 2 with me, she could throw up dna tests. she is messed up with bipolar and drugs, but i also know she will do anything to get them back. i love my 3 kids more than anything in the world. i dont know if i could leave without them. it would tear me apart. i know its best if they are away from her but it still hurts me to take them away from her.she is still my wife.no, i aint a wuss. just mature.

2006-07-08 14:36:06 · 13 answers · asked by tnkster71 2

I’m close friends with a girl who I liked, so I told her 2 weeks ago. She responded by saying that she just wanted to be friends. But over the course of the last 2 weeks she has kissed me many times and we have cuddled together intimately in bed a lot.

She rings me 1st thing in the morning and last thing at night, and many times during the day. We go out for dinner and hang out together each day. She has told me everything about her! We talk for hours. She says she wants to meet my family and get along with them.

She still says we are friends. Says she has gotten hurt by previous boyfriends many times and not long ago and is scared of giving her heart away again. She still talks about her last boyfriend who hurt her badly – Basically used her and then suddenly stopped all contact with her!

What does this mean? Does she even like me? Am I being played for a fool and don’t see it?

2006-07-08 14:27:59 · 30 answers · asked by AskingQuestion 1

2006-07-08 14:27:41 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just have a feeling that someone is trying to get information. I am getting ready to go through a divorce and my spouse is getting weirder and weider every day.

2006-07-08 14:02:06 · 6 answers · asked by shot gun annie 1

I've only been with her. She has plenty more then me.

2006-07-08 14:02:04 · 17 answers · asked by liljon2200 1

I have been wondering why my husband is so secretive about his emails and password for his computer. I only know now that he has been using the computer to cheat on me..and until now he wont let me near his computer. I tried many word etc to try to goand check his email but has not been successful. Any idea ???

2006-07-08 14:01:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

WHEN YOU 1ST MEET THEM AND START A RELATIONSHIP THEY ARE THE BEST WITH YOU TREAT YOU SO NICE AND TRY TO PLEASE YOU IN EVERY WAY THEY CAN,BUT IF YOU MARRY THEM THEY TOTALLY CHANGE NAME CALLING STARTS AND NOW THEY DONT CARE IF YOU ARE HAPPY. WHY?

2006-07-08 14:00:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that we both love each other more than anything. We fought with both of our families endlessly to support each other and yet, we're still telling each other we're going to leave. How many times should I be told to leave (even if I know it's tearing him up) before I leave?

2006-07-08 13:55:33 · 12 answers · asked by rebekahfayth 1

weeks then decided to leave again. she said she would pay 1/2 the rent. now rent is due and she is saying she aint paying her half. oh,how sweet! monday, the apartment owners start the evictions on people who didnt pay their rent. what should i do??? all of my kids stuff is here. my stuff plus some of my wives. the kids stay here most times. other times with their mom or grandma. im just totally lost and confused. before ya answer, i have no way of getting her half from anyone else. i have 1 option: takin my kids and moving back home out of state. but dont know if that would be kidnapping. we are still legally married and there is no way she will say yes to me taking them. before ya start talking lawyeres, iam really LOW on cash. im trying to do good. im not the one who is doing drugs. i just took on a second job. when im not working, my life revolves around my 3 kids. why is it that i feel the person getting punished is ME????

2006-07-08 13:48:35 · 13 answers · asked by tnkster71 2

adultry has been verified. Divorce papers have been filed.

2006-07-08 13:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by mtars_2005 2

children due to a bout with cancer. It seems like every man I meet wants to reproduce, I guess what I'm asking is does it turn a man off when he finds out a woman cannot have kids? Why am I having such a hard time finding a man who doesn't want kids?

2006-07-08 13:44:30 · 20 answers · asked by ooolala 2

2006-07-08 13:39:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

where is a good place to go for our anniversary

2006-07-08 13:36:52 · 8 answers · asked by ~Mrs.C 4

In the beginning my relationship w/ him was ok, but he has many issues fromt he start, i still proceeded. I find myself not very depressed, I feel my dreams are very distant, my desires have left, and my self confidence is down to nothing. I feel very numb and very alone and helpless. I knwo I'm depressed and I know his negativity and the feeling I get from being around him is exactly what I explained. I don't feel happy and free around him, b/c I want him to be happy and free so we can enjoy life together. I try to tell myself to enjoy regradless but it's hard when he's here.
He has nothing. We moved into my parents to save money, he's 32 and has nothing for himself. I think I'll never be able to get on my feet with him, then I realize I'm depending on him. I use to be the most ambitious, freespirited, independent person, now I feel like the sand under the rock.
I am seeing therapist starting Monday.

2006-07-08 13:30:02 · 6 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3