Ok, i know as a man i have a strong sex drive, I think about sex quite a bit and fantasize alot. Now my question is Do women think the same way? are they just a little more shy about it. I know men (not myself) that feel they could even though there married find another women for just sex with no emotional attachment. do women think this way as well? just curious. I know my wife and i have been married 17 years and she is just now really opening up sexually, just wondering how the other sex thinks...lol
2006-07-08 01:40:55 · 16 answers · asked by needingitnow342000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes women have very strong sex drives. I a am women. yes we fantasize alot. And NO I do not think most of would step out of or marriage just for a one-night stand. I know that is something I would never do and I have been married for 10 years. It did take me awhile to open up to my husband as to what I wanted or wanted to try. It was because I did not want to freak him out or want it to be a turn off for him. I was very scared that I would ruin what we had.
Silly me!! He was a freakin' sex machine and then asked if we could try more new things!!OOOOHHH YYAAA!!!
It all comes down to open communication. I was I afraid to ask him and he did not want to upset me, so we wasted all of that time with normal man-women on top instead of having fun..
2006-07-08 01:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that women do have a very Strong sex drive. I see two problems with why it is not often known.
1. Men get turned on in a minutes time. A woman sexual moments are built up. It starts with the kiss when you get home from work. Then the compliment on the meal and the simple touch and conversation through the evening. A woman who is ignored all evening has a hard time jumping to it. It seems to me that it takes two minutes for a man to be prepared . A woman is not like that.
2. I also believe that the lives of most women are so busy that they are exhausted by the time they retire with their honey. I know there were many times that I would have loved the attention and sex but did not have the energy. Maybe if a woman's burden was a little lighter, things would be a little better.
I do not know your situation, therefore I am not judging you. But, one thing I see so often in this world is that men go to work, come home and play. Women go to work, take care of the kids, clean, cook and still are expected to put out. It is hard.
I am glad that your wife is now able to start enjoying her sex life. Sex is a wonderful thing and I love it myself. I hope this helps you understand a little.
2006-07-08 01:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you said women only think about sex a few times a week shows that you haven't been with many women..or maybe you haven't been with a woman at all. No offense. You're wrong about asking psychologists, because I know a lot of psychologists that won't agree with you. The reason why there aren't many known female child molesters or rapists is because nobody reports them. I know people who were molested by their moms, step-moms, and aunts, but they didn't want the world to know their business. Plus, you're forgetting that most women don't want to admit how often they think about sex. If they say they think about sex everyday, guys are just going to think that they have a chance with them. I don't tell every guy that I'm a sex addict and that I love porn, because then they're just going to look at me as someone to get sex from.
2016-03-26 21:26:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do. At least some do. I know that when women are emotionally distressed their drive is much higher. Women also enjoy sex that contains emotional attachment but sometime (very seldomly like one night stands. The more emotional security we have from our partners the more open we are about sex. And once the emotional security is there then our sexual drive becomes much stronger and the more we also fantasize about sex. I hope this helped.
2006-07-08 02:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've read that 5% of all women have a strong sex drive. I have no way to identify them but how I wish I could.
Most women are happy with 2-3 times a week. When I was 38 I still wanted it that much every day. Now I'm down to 7-10 times a week.
2006-07-08 01:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman. I don't think about sex often. And as for sex with no emotional attachement. Maybe some women do, but again not all (and definitely not me).
2006-07-08 01:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes some women do. I know I do but if youre married and your partner is not that excited about sex that often you need to make it interesting they might. I had to do that with my husband because i can think of a million ways and places to have sex. I had to turn him on to it.
2006-07-08 01:44:36 · answer #7 · answered by Monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 years?? Just now "opening up"??? Thank you and God Bless you. You have given married men all over the world hope.
2006-07-08 01:47:37 · answer #8 · answered by bbell4444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My current girlfriend has a really strong sex drive herself and we match up real good. Different people have different drives weather they are male of female
2006-07-08 05:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, we sure do..it seems that we have more distractions, so perhaps we don't think of it as often as men! I'm the same as your wife, I'm finding more time and a great comfort level now, in this stage of life-it's awesome......enjoy
2006-07-08 14:04:39 · answer #10 · answered by katwomen0727 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋