My husband is cheating on me with a married woman should I tell her husband? She knows I know about them.?

Answer 1

When she took up with your husband...she made her business your business. So Yes! Tell her husband!

I feel if trash is brough to your front door it is your duty/obligation to put the trash out (so to speak). Bring the whole dirty dark secret into the light of day and let the adulterers be seen for what they are.

You on the other hand have a lot of decisions to make. Do you stay and recommit to a marriage that has beenfractured in such a way? or do you leave and start a new? Either decision is tough. Either decision takes courage.

The bible has made it clear that adultery is grounds for divorcement if the offended spouse cannot accept/forgive and move on with the marriage. You need to search your heart and make that decision! Dont let anyone push you into a decision that you alone will have to wake up each morning with!

Best wishes to you! I am so sorry you are having to deal with this!

Answer 2

Your husband is cheating on you and the thing you're asking for help with is whether or not you should tell her husband?? C'mon. Don't you have more important things to address right now? Like divorcing him and starting a new life?

Answer 3

I am sorry that you are going through this, but I don't think telling her husband will do any good. You be the bigger person, and forgive them both, even if you and your husband get divorced. If you decede to work through his infidelities, then you will be able to start over with a clean slate. Don't keep bringing this up in his face every time you have a disagreement.

Answer 4

yes I would tell him,
It affects the both of you and your husband is in the wrong along with the other woman...
Sounds like they aren't mature enough to be married to anyone.
Maybe sit down with everyone in the same room and bring it out in the open..
I would get a divorce if I were you.
just my opinion
good luck

Answer 5

Why do you stay with that loser? You deserve more respect than that. I'd not only tell her husband, I think you should sleep with him, videotape it, then play the video one night when you and your husband are watching TV. Then start laughing at him and tell him what a small c.ock he has compared to the other guy, and how the woman's husband made you come harder than he ever has. Then spit on him, and throw his naked as.s out on the curb, humiliated and defeated.

PS I'm from KY too and I think KY women deserve better than how he's treating you. Call me - I'll treat you like a lady.

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Answer 6

Do you still love your husband ? If you do don't tell. Just have an open Marriage . Go find yourself a pool boy. Ask your husband if he wants to watch you having fun with the pool boy.
I'm available

Answer 7

The real question here is what are you doing with your husband? It is only fair that you should tell him. Or maybe give her the opportunity to stop cheating and tell him herself. Let her know that if she doesn't you will. Would you want him to tell you if the situation were reversd?

Answer 8

two questions for you?
(1). your not still with your husband after this Right?
(2). you should tell "her" your going to tell her husband-- but don't...give her enough time and she will tell on her self for worrying about 'you' telling. Her husband may not believe you,

Answer 9

I doubt telling her husband could be any more of a betrayal than when she cheated with your husband.

Answer 10

What, exactly, would you say? By telling, could you serve any purpose other than personal revenge? Would doing so improve the situation with your husband, whether you stay with him or not? Ask yourself, is what you plan to say true? Is it kind? Is it necessary?