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My husband has a fantasy of sharing me with a number of his buddies. To be honest the idea actually turns me on more than I would care to admit. Is it wrong of me to feel flattered that he wants to show me off to his buddies. We have incredible sex and the idea of being with him and another man sharing me at the same time just turns me on so. I feel that I can't do that unless I can also allow him to be with me and another woman and I cannot handle that. He knows this is how I feel and he has never complained about it. Am I naive to think that if we go through with me being with him and another man that he will not expect to be given the opportunity to be with another woman and me also?

2006-07-08 11:33:19 · 11 answers · asked by mitchsgirl 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

11 answers

go for it

2006-07-08 11:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

I never have so I can't say personally (my man is the only one I want) but I do have a friend whose husband is way into this too. She's had some crazy experiences and no harm has come from the situation. Only a suggestion, but if you feel that it is "necessary" to bring another woman into the picture, then why not do so but make it clear that he can only watch you with the other woman (believe me, this is enough for most men. He will undoubtebly be satisfied watching you please each other) because you do not feel comfortable watching him with her.

2006-07-08 12:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by Ring Ring Ring Bananaphone 5 · 0 0

I have, but we were seperated so mine is different. The only advice I have is that as long as you talk to him about your concerns and he is totally ok with you not being with another women then I don't see any problems. have fun and good luck.

2006-07-08 11:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0 0

well I don't see why your man would want to be naked with another man for any reason... and I can tell you that nothing good will come from this... he will be so jealous in the days to come ... it want even be funny... it will bring you nothing but heart ache..

2006-07-08 11:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by panda 6 · 0 0

you will both get hurt by this and you will never be able to take it back.I wouldnt want to see my guy with another woman,

2006-07-08 11:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Swinging doesn't work for everyone . Sometimes its better to keep it as a fantasy.

2006-07-08 11:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by RM802001 2 · 0 1

if you can deal with the fact, that your hubby wants to sleep with you and some of his friends, i say go for it darling

2006-07-08 12:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

he's gay. Just let this keep going, he's gonna want to go farther with his 'butties'. you watch, you watch.

2006-07-08 11:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

sounds like you want approval to do it. go ahead enjoy it YOUR APPROVED

2006-07-08 11:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by johnman142 6 · 0 1

it will probably end your relationship.....so beware ........it did mine .....the only time it ever happened .....

2006-07-08 11:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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