I went to my friend's house to celebrate the beggining of our vacation. We had a barbecue there and then some of them decided to play "the truth game". It's a game where you can make questions and the other person has to answer the truth. I participated on that game and i ended up saying really intimate things about me and my boyfriend. I didnt think it would be a bad thing to do, or else i would never have done it. As i thought there was no problem on this, i told my boyfriend everything that happened there. Then, he got angry with me and broke up our relationship.
i answered questions like: "if you had to date someone that is participating on this game, who would it be?" , "tell one thing that your boyfriend asked you to do (sexual things), that you answered 'no way!'" and "tell the most strange thing you already used to masturbate yourself"
He said that i should tell my friends what happened between us and that this game may have terrible consequences.
2006-07-08 11:01:41 · 8 answers · asked by Naomi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Looks like you learned a lesson the hard way. Don't kiss and tell.
2006-07-08 11:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually you didn't do anything wrong. It's just that you've learned that the rest of the world doesn't always react to truth and frankness in complimentary ways at time. The reality is that sometimes one has to overcome the urge to be 'too' truthful, especially on delicate subject matter that also involves a third party, because the third party (your boyfriend) must also accept the consequences, even if it's only a little ribbing and fun.
2006-07-08 18:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not trying to be rude at all but your grammar seems a little hashy. Not quite understanding what you are saying. But if he got upset because you said you would date one of the guys you were hanging out with while playing a game, you should leave him because it will never work out when someone is that immature and jealous. You should find someone who understands you better and who doesn't sweat the small stuff.
2006-07-08 18:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by noriahchapman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that your boyfriend is a very private person, so if you get him back then you should probably not tell people what you do together or lat least don't tell him that you told other people, definitely don't tell anyone that will tell him. Its good that you told him yourself though. Was he jealous of the if you were to have sex with anyone in this game question???
2006-07-08 18:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never air personal things like that to anyone. Your b/f has good cause to be angry and call off the relationship. This is not a game to him.
2006-07-08 18:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt have revealed intimate details that may have being an embarrasment to him. Some guys dont like when girls run their mouths about their bf's.
Lesson learned; move on.
2006-07-08 18:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by OJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm I think he is just a little peculiar. And why would you have told him anyway?
2006-07-08 18:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by RM802001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what happens when you put your pesonal biz out
2006-07-08 18:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋