My husband wants to have sex with me all the time, but from time to time, I'm realy not up to it. Should I just have sex for the sake of it, or tell him I really don't feel like making love when I don't? Wouldn't it be some kind of cheating saying I enjoyed when I really didn't want to do it? I mean, he wants to have sex like 3 times a day, sometimes dialy! And yes, he's turned on by me, he's not a sexual addict.
2006-07-08 12:46:16 · 9 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe a good lover wants the other person to be happy. That doesn't mean you have to put oiut, just help him out by hand, orally, whatever. Want to lose him? Shut him out....
2006-07-08 15:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all these guys on here are telling you to keep him happy... typical. I think that if you arent in the mood, tell him. Maybe he will appreciate what he does get more. You shouldnt feel like you HAVE to have sex with him.
If he starts to say, i will just get it from someone else... leave him.
2006-07-08 18:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by hello_kitty_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amber, there are a lot of things to look at here. First off does he use a lot of foreplay ? Do you fight or have a lot of disagreements during the day? There could be a number of reasons why you aren't "in the mood" . Have you ever thought of maybe laying beside him and letting him please his self while you rub his stomach and/or kiss him?
2006-07-08 19:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by LarryTx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep him happy. He will get tired eventually. As the great Monique once said "honey, what you wont do for him, another ***** will and she'll prolly do it so good he wont come back"
2006-07-08 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he needs to get you in the mood every time, and enjoy it just as much as he does.
2006-07-08 13:03:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word, compromise, I'm sure he can get by on once a day, I don't know who can't.
2006-07-08 15:08:35 · answer #6 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better him to stop now because after you realize what is doing to you its going to be hard deal with
2006-07-08 13:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by canibus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S OK TO SAY NO EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE BUT NOT TO OFTEN OR IT WILL MAKE HIM THINK YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT HIS NEEDS
2006-07-08 13:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by MATCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep him happy
2006-07-08 12:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by J Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋