Marriage & Divorce - 2 July 2006

My husband and I had a long talk and realize the fun we used to have has been sapped out of our relationship. We are deeply in debt, not happy with our jobs, and can't afford to go out. Our time together is so serious minded we feel like we can't have fun anymore. We used to chat online and laugh talk on the phone for hours, about everything and nothing. So any suggestions how to put the fun back?

2006-07-02 11:08:55 · 34 answers · asked by calla_lilly2 1

2006-07-02 11:04:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK, I believe in true love, that is not my question. Am I the only one who realizes that relationships require require effort to keep them strong? I hear much talk about finding the "one true love". So what happens after you find it? Blissfull happiness for the rest of eternity?? It seems to me that SOME (alot in my experience) people are spoiled and selfish now a days. Disposable lifestyles, plasitic friends,... basically, if the going gets tough, GET THE F**K OUT!! I understand that everyone needs their own life and identity, but at what cost?

So, do you believe that the "give and take" balancing act (as far as relationships are concerned) has been shifted to the "take" side or has it always been like this and I am blind? I am 26 and baseing my opinion on my experiences while growing up.

2006-07-02 10:53:33 · 12 answers · asked by itwasme 2

2006-07-02 10:46:54 · 14 answers · asked by jerimysh 2

i am supposed to get married next summer, however i am having doubts. My guy is very jelious and constantly accuses me of cheating. when we go out he gets drunk and screams things at me ie whore. Unforunately all of our friends think that it is my fault and really dislike me now. I never cheated but he won't believe me. He even went as far as saying that the stains on my skirt was from another guy if you know what I mean. What should I do?

2006-07-02 10:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by bubbles 2

He constantly corrects, ridicules, and belittles me. I get mad and think about leaving him. However, it would be his second divorce and I think if I left he would kill himself. I also know he would not attempt couseling because he thinks it is for nutcases. I am so sick of it all. I know of a man who thinks I am beautiful, sexy, and would probably do anything for me. I love the way he makes me feel, yet I am married. What do I do?

2006-07-02 10:33:15 · 25 answers · asked by hljones1169 2

2006-07-02 10:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well the point is that he changed a alot but sometimes he hurts my feelings and im not sure if i love him we got 2 kids plus his daughter and im just 21 i want to be with him because of his daughter her mom lost custody and she suffer alot but still im not ssure what can i do to know if i love him or not and what should i do to jim when he pushes me away and doesnt want me touching him and hes not cheating on me because hes always with me and the kids plus he works im confused i care about him but sometime i think i cant leave him because of the kids and my parents and his mom hes 26 i benn through alot

2006-07-02 10:05:51 · 26 answers · asked by carmen r 1

who should i marry? one of them- all he ever does is eat ham.. he never stops eating,and ONLY eats ham.. and hes mean and dirty.. or....... this guy who is hot, smart, has a great job, kind, nice considerate , and goal orianted?

2006-07-02 10:04:55 · 8 answers · asked by i dont have a pig handy! 1

2006-07-02 10:00:49 · 24 answers · asked by akk345 1

2006-07-02 09:51:42 · 18 answers · asked by curious 1

2006-07-02 09:50:09 · 20 answers · asked by preston 1

2006-07-02 09:49:59 · 3 answers · asked by jr_beavers 1

she is doing with guys she meets on aol I need to get proof

2006-07-02 09:48:07 · 9 answers · asked by steve k 1

i have an incest relation with my sister

2006-07-02 09:39:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-02 09:37:47 · 14 answers · asked by zazo 1

Recently my sister found out that my dad is seeing another woman while using his mobile to send sms.She has been keeping this a secret from my mum because it would break her heart very much.As much as I am angry,I just love my dad and I dont wanna loose him.My mom trusted my dad very much and have always been there through storm and sunshine.She simply loves him as they have been together for 25 years now.I need to know what can i and my siblings do to stop my dad from seeing this woman without my mum finding out:(.It breaks my heart to see my mum who doesn't know whats going on and looking at my dad whos pretending as if he's a trustworthy person..Plz tell me what can i do!

2006-07-02 09:37:00 · 23 answers · asked by Confusedgirl:( 1

Me and my wife are miserable, and have been for a while. The only reason we are still together is for convience. I am head over heels in love with her friend. Should I tell her to find out how she feels about me, or don't go there? You have to understand if I see her my heartrate increases, if I speak to her my legs start shaking. It's not just lust.

2006-07-02 09:30:14 · 31 answers · asked by Stressed Out 1

we are very outgoing people and well try anything

2006-07-02 09:28:44 · 22 answers · asked by nicky j 2

2006-07-02 09:20:21 · 4 answers · asked by bocfootball 1

his parents agreed but since they heard that my parents have not agreed even they r not coming forward.what do we do.?he says we have to convince and get married.....its impossible to convince my parents who r looking only for money and position.

2006-07-02 09:20:19 · 2 answers · asked by Hmmm_well_its_me! 2

We were spereated almost a yr. I 'left' because our situation was volatile to say the least and I felt we needed some time. Alot happend in the 10 months and he felt I wasnt there for him ( although I really wanted to be he shut me out). He hooked up with a mutual frind I highly TRUSTED because she was 'there' for him through some rough stuff. He came down to Florida to 'work things out' with us. HE was here 5 wks and decided it wasn't going to work. He went back to NY to HER. She is 4 yrs my jr, has no kids, never been married or even in a long term relationship. Her responsibilities are her and her dog. I'm hurt. I'm angry. I can't seem to move past it. HELP! I have no friends here nad my mom hates him so she's negative about everything. I don't want to get even. I just want to get over it. I have no $$ for counseling, nor insurance.

2006-07-02 09:19:00 · 15 answers · asked by D 2

well he always says I am not a good person don't help but hey I clean,cook,wash everything when he comes home everything is all good all he has to do is to eat and then sleep and then work.he says he is sick because of me I told him I look after his food but he doesn't listen to me but when I met him he was already sick he also said I always answer him back so I try to leave him alone but he gets angry he wants me to stay with him all the time he tells me he loves me and all that but I think he doesn't. we have a big different in age but I told him I will never leave him I know he was too old for me but I didn't care I love him he is worry I might leave him. I don't know what else that make him happy can someone tell me what to do.

2006-07-02 09:12:46 · 8 answers · asked by Molly B 1

some people say its a sin and i think so too.

2006-07-02 09:08:17 · 55 answers · asked by ANGEL 1

There are too many divorces in this world, people should not be able to get one so easy, that way they will seriously think before they get married too many people are hurt by it. If people would put in the time and work as it takes to have a happy marriage as they do as they do in most anything else they do, they just might be successful.

2006-07-02 09:05:56 · 36 answers · asked by angel_64 3

What do you do when you find out your husband spreads rumors about you like you have a disease? Although I've never had an std, he has been known to say this horrible thing about me. I don't understand why except he just doesn't want me to be with someone else. Is he that insecure? Help, please, what should i do? He is slandering my good name.

2006-07-02 09:03:35 · 10 answers · asked by spring2bee 1

My husband and I are both 31, we have been together for a total of 8 years, marrying almost 2 years ago. We basically live our own lives. Occassionally doing something together. Lately he has been real short with me and about things that need done. When I asked him, He says he just has so much to do, and no free time..What do you think might be causing this? I'm not sure we should have married, He never tells me that he loves me, he's just to busy.

2006-07-02 08:50:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been living with the mother of my kids for 5 years we never got married, our relationship went down 3 years ago mostly fights and arguments. I started going out with someone else 1 year ago, i never told her anything about it. I never neglected my kids i was always there for my kids and their mom but just recently she found out i was seeing another woman. she is telling me that she is taking full custody of the kids because of infidelity i would understand it if we were married but we are not. can she use that as a reason to take the kids away from me? please help anyone,

2006-07-02 08:49:02 · 3 answers · asked by navagator73 2

My husband and I have been having problems he's in the military and is gone alot, I found out that while we were in different states he decided to form a close friendship with a female on his ship, they both say nothing happened and she is also married, he claims she was just his listening ear and now I feel like I can't trust him he likes to go out with his friends alot and everytime he does I think he's going to sneak off and cheat. But I don't really know if he ever cheated on me what do I do? How can I fix it?

2006-07-02 08:47:06 · 9 answers · asked by YD 4

2006-07-02 08:45:48 · 16 answers · asked by zazo 1