My husband and I have been having problems he's in the military and is gone alot, I found out that while we were in different states he decided to form a close friendship with a female on his ship, they both say nothing happened and she is also married, he claims she was just his listening ear and now I feel like I can't trust him he likes to go out with his friends alot and everytime he does I think he's going to sneak off and cheat. But I don't really know if he ever cheated on me what do I do? How can I fix it?
2006-07-02 08:47:06 · 9 answers · asked by YD 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To fix something that means it broken. Well it seems you're getting good at breaking things because his attention is on another ship mate who needed companionship in the middle of no where- keep in mind while there lives were under major hard pressing tension they form an alliance/unity. To you it sounds horrid to anyone else, like them, it was truly needed to maintain there sanity to return home to there love ones...like you.
If the relationship continue after returning to land that probably means they got a little heavy with each other. Listening ear is sooo comforting and can turn into nothing if you're over the phone, doll.
2006-07-02 09:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by NEMESIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change how you feel, But if he says they are just friends, why don't you try to believe him. Did he ever lie to you before? Did he ever cheat on you? Were you completely faithfult o him while he was gone?
2006-07-02 15:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by Suzi W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offeense but i think u r just insecure u need to start having a little more communication with ur hubby and go out with other couples that way u see how he reacts with other people like if he is those kind of guys that stare at every girl they see and if he is well then i understand u but if he isnt than u need to start trusting him.
2006-07-02 16:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where trust comes in. Now he really may be a friend to this other lady. If he is messing around, it has a way of finding itself out, and eventually you'll learn the truth. Just be patient....you'll see. Best of luck to you........
2006-07-02 15:52:20 · answer #4 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just need to believe him that when he say that he and her are just friends then believe it . if he have never cheated on u before and if he show u that he loves me that why are u worryed for i would not worried about it .
2006-07-02 15:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta talk to him, talk openly, tell him the way that you feel and why. It may indeed be innocent, but listen to him carefully and you will know
2006-07-02 15:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Joy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he say nothing happen nothing happen believe this okay
Because if something happen he and she will lose their job
And nobody what that
so nothing happen believe me you
2006-07-02 16:31:23 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to submit to a lie detector test
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2006-07-02 20:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to God.
2006-07-03 09:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by LP S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋